My girl friend is telling me its getting hard to please her, we havent had sex yet
and she says that when im fingering her that i'm not getting in deep enough befor this was not the case. What does this all mean?
Mon, 04/09/2007 - 12:07
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Pleasing her is getting harder
You should ask her specifically.
The inside of the vagina has very few nerves so there is not much for her to actually feel except what many find very pleasurable and satisfying--that being a sense of fullness. The nerves that contribute to her arousal and orgasm are around the outside of the opening and just inside. So, without knowing specifically what her complaint is, I'd first concentrate more play at the entrance and then when it comes time for her climax, inserting one or perhaps two fingers (if she can accommodate two) as far inside as possible. If she enjoys having you stroke your fingers in, out, and around, then be sure to do this for her, also.
Is she able to climax from the fingering and other caresses you do? If yes, then you should be well on your way to satisfying her. If not, then you need to determine whether she can in fact climax on her own, and if so, then what you need to be doing to help her with this when making love. If not, then she needs to learn how to masturbate and there is a Sticky post with information on this.
she is saying that i'm not getting deep enogh any more and i dont think my fingers have shrunkin lol
LOL yea that doesn't make sense.
Maybe she is saying that is isn't satisfied by your fingers b/c she is wanting more depth and fullness...*wink*wink* maybe meaning the "real thing"!!
I dunno but worth a shot. I mean you can't magically make your fingers longer!!!!
erm well as buttercup said either she "wants it" or perhaps the lack of sense of depth is really a lack of thickness perhaps you should try more fingers
i already work it up to 3 fingers she says its depth funny with the make your fingers longer
[QUOTE=demonbuttercup;173855]LOL yea that doesn't make sense.
Maybe she is saying that is isn't satisfied by your fingers b/c she is wanting more depth and fullness...*wink*wink* maybe meaning the "real thing"!!
I dunno but worth a shot. I mean you can't magically make your fingers longer!!!![/QUOTE]
I think it is time for the eal thing as demonbuttercup said:)
after a while the novelty wears off, have you licked her out?
try that (if you havnt already)