me and my girlfriend have been sexually active for at least a year and im 19 shes 18. she told me her fantasy is to have sex in an open field during the evening (before the sunset) and i have no idea how to fulfill that without being caught or seen. i just have no clue what to do for this and i really want to do that for her. i go to college in philadelphia is thats any help. thank you :)
Mon, 10/24/2011 - 01:21
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pleasing her fantasy
I don't know what your state is like, however, here in Northern California we have rural roads, hiking trails, farmers' fields, etc. Why not take a drive out in the country and see what you can find. If there are any trails, see about walking off one to the side and see if there are any secluded areas.
Around Sacramento there are side roads with an adjoining gate long enough to park a car and sometimes open a gate if not locked.
What about a local "Inspiration Point" overlooking the city or some other view?
When you find a place, pack a picnic dinner, perhaps from KFC, take a couple of blankets and pillows and go have an adventure.
Philly? Well, not much in the way of open fields there that aren't nasty old industrial areas and since you're a student, you probably do NOT have a car. Any green space will be either heavily patrolled by police or privately owned.
Unless you have a friend or friends with a car and a map of Delaware or New Jersey or Amish country, your girlfrend's fantasy...well... you're just SOL.
So let's get real and change this rural fantasy to an urban fantasy. Private space with sunset and privacy = top of buildings.
See what you can do up there among the gargoyles.
Part of the excitement of outdoor sex is the potential of being seen or caught. There are some great natural areas in central and western PA. Even in MD. DE. and NJ if you can believe that! If you do have a car I suggest you scout some areas out, try to figure out where you will be most unlikely to be discovered. Try to find a place where people are not likely to be walking around and that is not especially visible from any roads.
I have successfully had sex in national,city and state parks and open fields in OH. NC and even on the side of a volcano in Mexico. Take the possibility of wild animals or livestock into consideration...and the police.
Unfortunately, Philly is in the South-Eastern port/industrial/warehouse region of Pennsylvania. Green is not a color you see alot of there. Philly is on a par with Camden and Trenton, New Jersey - not to put too fine a point on it. True, the city does have its pretty places but the work required to find them, and get to them often erodes the value of the experience.