My b/f and I have been going out for 8 months and we just 2 months ago started having sex, but when he is doing oral on me and when i am about to reach the feeling of an orgasm I move and then i cant get the feeling back. Is it b/c of stress? WHAT CAN I DO TO HAVE ONE? and to stop moving and pushing him away when it is close to happening? ![]()
Thu, 07/10/2003 - 23:03
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pleasing her


Well I think this is a mental block maybe. Some people say for women it feels like you need to pee. Maybe your brain is telling you that your going to pee but really, your going to orgasm. So you push him away and move because you don't want too. Subconcious maybe. I'm not too advanced on this topic but I'd guess thats what it would be. Maybe just let it go and tell him not to stop unless you deliberatly say NO or STOP if you're in pain or know you really do need to pee.
My two cents,
Drew
Teknics, you may be thinking of female ejaculation. I have also heard that an approaching FE feels like having to pee, but in my experience, a typical, non-ejaculating orgasm doesn't feel anything like having to pee, and I haven't heard it described that way by other women.
SeXyLEo, I had a similar problem when I was relatively new to orgasms, and occasionally I still do. Sometimes the feeling gets so intense that it is hard to keep going, and I have to stop him (or myself).
Are you able to reach orgasm by yourself? The first step may be to become more comfortable with the feeling of orgasm through masturbation. Once you are completely comfortable doing it by yourself, you may have an easier time letting him help you.
Hi everyone! I really need some help.My problem is that my girlfriend can't have an orgasm.I know, its not very rare but Im really trying to please her. I've read some many articles, and learnt interesting things about how to give her an orgasm.But the problem still remains,can anyone help me?
well cgeorgan, I would suggest letting her take more direction let her tell you waht she likes, The best/easiest way to get her to orgasm is open communication, if she doesnt tell you what she likes it could take a while to try and figure out exactly what she likes, also dont put too much emphasis on pleasing her, a lot of times people lose sight that you both need to enjoy it and sometimes that can be the thing that can put someone over the top, I know its a big turn on for me to know we are both really enjoying the experience at the same time.
yes , i see low exprince here but let me tell you somthing ,
when you do sex you have to give your partener the filling of happines and don't be shay to tell him/her you prefer this or that and dislike this or that try befor sex to starte a sex chat about the sex you prefer and what you like him / her to do with you this turn her/him on also encorege you to orgasem .also when you do sex you have to go with the filling also your sexy sound show him/or her the sexy way you perfer all that push you to orgazem try the next time the hotest sex in the bed
I am getting married in three weeks. Me and my fiance have been having sex for a while now and I have never had an orgasm with him. I have only had two orgasms in my life and they were wonderful. I am confused about what exactly a clitoral orgasm feels like. If anyone can tell me that would be great. I have also never masturbated b/c I saw that as wrong. I wouild like to start but don't exactly know what to do. If anyone can help me that would be woderful. Message me or reply here. Thank you.