Me and my g/f are virgins (besides me giving her oral sex) and decided that soon would be the time to do it. She wants to do it without a condom which is alright with me. but what should i do when im about climax cause i dont want to risk getting her pregant, but want to keep the moment going???
Mon, 08/18/2003 - 00:41
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Pleasing her!
Why does she not want to use a condom... it is more safe for her and also it is more safe.. so wear a condom PLEASE! and make her get on the pill.. and make sure you are really ready
I advise both of you to strongly consider using a condom. Condoms protect not only against pregnancy, but against STDs, which non-barrier methods cannot protect against.
If you do decide not to use a condom, use another form of birth control. The withdrawl method (pulling out before you ejaculate) is the least effective form of birth control, with only an 82% success rate. You will probably not be able to prevent yourself from ejaculating during your first time having sex. Even if you do not ejaculate, she can still get pregnant from sperm left in your urethera from previous ejaculations.
Before you have sex, please look at this site's information on birth control. Here is a link:
birth control
There is no excuse not to use a condom ever. Unless you are wanting to become a parent...or you perhaps like genital diseases...which I'm guessing you're probably not a big fan of.
Good luck.
yeah girlygirl is right
w/drawl method isn't even that effective and if you are going to do it anyways.... it should be left to the more experienced.
you should definety not try this on your first time. not since you are familiar w/ out vaginal sex will feel for you and how fast it will make you cum.
so pllleeeeaassee wear a condom.