[QUOTE=SexyStacey]Ok we need help were 15 and would like to know some ideas on how to please our boyfriends...we are kind of new to this and would really appreciate it if someone would help us out.:confused:[/QUOTE]

I wouldn't worry too much about pleasing them. They'll both be exes in no time anyway.

OK, but first some role play: Take turns being the mother and daughter and the daughter practices looking into mum's eyes saying, "Mum, I am pregnant."

Hello girlies!
I was once in your shoes so I know how you feel!
You will be sooooooooooooooooooo happy if you can stick to oral until you're a little older.
So practice. Ask them what feels good.
AND be safe so you can enjoy many years of great sex!!!!

Best way to please a boyfriend at 15:

Make absolutely certain you don't get pregnant. (And there is really only ONE SURE way to avoid that.)

Best way to please a boyfriend at 18:

Tell him that you waited to have sex until you were older and emotionally ready for it.

Best way to please a boyfriend at 23:

Tell him that you are ready for a serious relationship that's not based on sex, and you aren't very experienced because you've never been in love before.

anybody want to continue this...?

There seems to be a growing willingness among teenage girls to be sex objects for guys. Girls dress more provocative now and if you read this board, you can only assume that they seem to have sex quicker, are more eager to perform oral, are open to anal sex, ejaculation in their face, gangbangs, etc.

They appear to be focused on pleasing penises.

Obviously this is due to the internet culture desensitizing them to sexual subjects. Maybe I'm reading this wrong and teenage girls are actually "empowered" by these experiences. But knowing what I know of teenage boys' opinions of girls, I can't help but think that these girls are simply degrading themselves and losing their self-respect in the process.

Agree? Disagree?

Best way to please your 15yo boy friends?

1. Buy them tickets to a sporting event
2. Buy them tickets to a concert
3. Buy them a box of condoms and tell them to come back when they can support you and the baby financially.

As a certified old fart...

Not sure I agree about the Internet Culture desensitizing...

I'm also not sure things have really changed that much... there are still a lot of kids not having sex. I do think, however, society in general has "glorified" the whole sex thing as part of some stupid entitlement movement... that you somehow are supposed to be able to do whatever you want without consequence.

I'm not sure a forum is a good place to "gauge" the world... most of the people who come here have problems, that's the point of the forum. For others it's fantasy land and you have to wonder how true some posts are... That said, there is definitely an unhealthy trend to do what feels good and to believe that if you want it you should get it - and it's not limited to kids.

In a sense, they really aren't degrading themselves or losing their self-respect because the value system is changing. Whether it's doing drugs, getting drunk, having sex... the only point is that it feels good. It's the grown up thing to do.

Of course it's always been that way to a degree, but now it's socially acceptable... so it's not such a long hop from acceptable to norm to goal.

We are teaching and learning how to have fun but forgetting how to think.

We've had posters (one quite recently) here who spewed all sorts of simply bad advice that promotes the sex object mentality. When challenged, they cry that it's unfair, they have the right to post what they want as if that means they are to be left unchallenged by those who disagree. To me, that's the same as screaming "I have a right not to think and to say (or do) whatever I want and you can't stop me."

Is that a lack of self-respect or actually an exagerated sense of self-importance?

(Stepping down off the 101 soapbox so someone else can climb on.)

[QUOTE=ua322]There seems to be a growing willingness among teenage girls to be sex objects for guys. Girls dress more provocative now and if you read this board, you can only assume that they seem to have sex quicker, are more eager to perform oral, are open to anal sex, ejaculation in their face, gangbangs, etc.

They appear to be focused on pleasing penises.

Obviously this is due to the internet culture desensitizing them to sexual subjects. Maybe I'm reading this wrong and teenage girls are actually "empowered" by these experiences. But knowing what I know of teenage boys' opinions of girls, I can't help but think that these girls are simply degrading themselves and losing their self-respect in the process.

Agree? Disagree?[/QUOTE]

i had sex for the first time when i was 15 and i felt that in a lot of ways it was a fairly positive experience because i was very in love with the person i did it with, we were safe about it, and even though the sex was not good yet it was a way for us to connect on a deeper level.

so in a way i guess i'm trying to say that
1) be safe
2) don't give your virginity to just anyone (if you are virgins)
3) use birth control and a condom if you can
4) don't be overly upset if things change after you start having sex

as for the pleasure part, if they're your age, they'll be so psyched to stick thier dicks in something other than their hand that they won't care what you do really. but don't just lie there. make sure your moving too. and also, talk to him and help him find your g-spot because young boys (and even older ones) are especially bad at that. let it be about you as well.

and please for the love of god just be safe about it.:o