Im not sure if this is under the right forum...
I've never had sex and I've just started masturbating in the bath with a dildo and its about 5 inches or so long. It only feels good if it hits the very back of me (or what feels to be it anyways). Otherwise if i dont push it hard that far back i dont feel anything.
If a guy is any shorter than that how would it feel good? everyones says its about how he uses it... but it just feels like going in and out, in and out if it doesnt hit the back...
And also, if i put like 2 and half inches or so in upwards and do it really fast, it kind of hurts but feels really good, like a pinch.. is that the g-spot?
The only nerves in/on your vagina is at the opening so really, all that you're supposed to feel is it going in and out. I would say that if you're hitting something back there, you're hitting your cervix which really isn't good but I'm not medical doctor and I'm just assuming that's what you'd be hitting if you're hitting something.
As for the gspot, that's still debatable whether or not it exists. If you stick your finger in and curl upwards, you should hit it. Some people feel nothing such as myself, other people claim that that's the magic spot for them. I don't think it's that far in there though but I'm not sure.
Women report that in addition to having the sensitive nerve endings in and around the vaginal opening stimulated, what feels very very good is the sense of fullness that they experience having a penis inside. You may want to focus on this when your are very highly aroused.
I agree with dancingdoc2.
I think its not up to debate, many many many women enjoy gpot stimulation and even have g-spot exclusive orgasms. not everyone has a findable one or enjoys teh feeling that come from it. usually the woman must already be aroused and have a clitoral erection in order to engorge the g-spot area before good feelings start.