Hi, I am 18 years old and I seriously need help having an orgasm! I am new to sex and I know it might be because of it, but ok, I've been having sex for almost three years now, but I stood almost a year without it. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months and I can already say that we love each other... the thing is, he is 20, and more, a lot more experienced, he's had been with older women and of course only from being a man, he has had A LOT more sex than I have. Every time we have sex he comes and I don't, and since I NEVER HAD AN ORGASM, I don't even know how to fake it!
I made the horrible mistake of faking it the first time, so now he thinks I have orgasms, so I can't get help from him. And the only reason I don't tell him the truth is that it would really make him feel bad espeacially since he's one of those to whose sex is not good when the lady doesn't come, so yeah he works mostly for me, and he only comes, after I come, or even better, after I fake it! I can't even fake it anymore and its getting on my head, because it seems like we are a perfect couple, but when it comes to sex, we don't connect! WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME? Please help! I definetly accept all advices! (By the way I am new to sexinfo101 too, this is my first post:) ) thank you!