hello im 28 yrs old in a good relationship with a great looking girl in my previous relationship i was able to pound the girl for atleast 20 minutes before cumming unless in the morning. Then it would be like 5 minutes. Now granted my fiance now is tighter then her as of lately i have not been able to last more then maybe 5 minutes if lucky most of the time its 2 to 3 minutes unless i continually stop her which breaks the mood for her. Now she says its not a problem if she cums but come on guys thats not cool for me and there has been many occasions where she dont and i do. Any way i have done some research and found beating off to the point where you just bust as fast as possible is no good which honestly i have always done since about 14. up until now now that i know its no good. They should teach that in health class. i also have a lot of stress in my life right now also but i dont think thats the sole reason to my pe. I have been trying kegals lately and also started edging i would like any advice i can get to last longer in bed atleast 15 to 20 minutes the only way i can achieve any thing over 5 minutes is to take perks or vicodin which i dont want to do just to have sex please can some one help me with this i will answer all questions honestly and open to suggestions
Fri, 04/08/2011 - 03:52
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please help with my pe
An American women's magazine recently asked the question (of women), "How long from penetration did your last sex last?" The responses ranged from three to thirteen minutes. If she has already been brought off ("ladies first"), it does not really matter. I really do not enjoy more than ten minutes and by twenty, you would be lying on the floor.
Perhaps your attitude gets in the way. No bloke if going to "pound" me.
ok i understand but 2 minutes is no good and i cum quite a bit before she does am i just bugging over nothing
Yeah, maybe you are. Just relax and enjoy.:)
i do enjoy it but every one says pe is defined as cumming before your partner has and lately this has been in like 2 3 minutes when i go 10 15 minutes im great i want to know how to get past this 2 3 minute mark and does any one know if these flash light stamina training units really work or not i can jerk off and edge for over a half hour easily and i have been doing kegals alot lately how ever not every day but i also read they dont even help you last longer
i agree with brandye that as long as you have a ladies first policy it wouldn't matter too much. i do however understand the desire to want to enjoy the act longer even if your partner has came already. there was a woman who came quickly as well but of course thats a little different for a woman. besides trying to think of something else or doing kegel exercises i would inject the possibility that pe sprays might work. i have heard them talked about the sprays on an american doctors show, no idea if they work but you can do some research.
Wearing a condom may slow things down. To some men this desensitizes a bit.
If you're wearing one already (which is a very good and wise thing to do considering STD's!), you could try those designed for longer pleasure, such as Durex Performa. These contain a special lube that will postpone ejaculation and gives you more time to enjoy the act. It contains benzocaïne.
its my fiance who i trust highly so we dont use condoms she has birth control and sometimes when i use condoms it happens also i have heard creams and sprays have negative effects in the long run i would just like to a natural way to fix it thats all pretty much do kegals and edging really work or not and what about this flash light stu
flash light? i think you mean flesh light right?
[QUOTE=moyerjoey;267186][COLOR="blue">every one says pe is defined as cumming before your partner has and lately this has been in like 2 3 minutes [/COLOR]
Premature Ejaculation is defined as having a climax before the man or his partner wants it to occur.
[COLOR="blue">when i go 10 15 minutes im great i want to know how to get past this 2 3 minute mark and does any one know if these flash light stamina training units really work or not[/COLOR]
Please clarify what you said, above.
Save your money and read this article found in the Index at the top of the main screen:
Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controlling Premature Ejaculation
[COLOR="blue">i can jerk off and edge for over a half hour easily and i have been doing kegals alot lately how ever not every day but i also read they dont even help you last longer[/COLOR][/QUOTE]
Having strong Kegal muscles will help intensify your orgasms.
Please read each of the articles listed in the Index. Knowledge is empowering. The articles discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about--like yours.
Dude. Relax.
What's your concern here? Are you wanting to last longer for her enjoyment, or are you wanting to enjoy it longer yourself? Or both?
If it's for her, as a woman I can tell you that how long he lasts inside only rarely affects my orgasm. That's partly because penetration doesn't get me off unless there's clit going on at the same time. We typically do Ladies First by manual or oral and by the time he's in, it's all about finishing him.
However, that's also just me. She might be different.
If it's for you, try the squeeze training. I think T does this when he wants to avoid coming just yet. It puts a split-second hiccup in our rhythm, but it's not a full stop. We almost always do face-to-face cowgirl, so all I really notice is that the bouncing gets off by half a beat. Which is okay because as I said, at that point I've had mine and it's all about him anyway, so whatever floats his boat.
Usually if I feel like I'm going to cum too soon, I'll stop and give her more oral. She actually loves it when I do that.