If you write in standard English, you will get better and more reasoned response. Skinny or fat makes no difference. Some few women are incapable; many of us experience nothing; for most, it is a quick stab of pain and it is over.

Read around and you will get many First Time issues answered.

i'm pretty skinny I guess.. I weigh about 115 but when I lost my virginity I was about 110 and it hurt but not very bad, deffinently not as bad as I thought it would, if you take it slow its allot easier and make sure theres plenty of lube that REALLY helps

No it isn't true and if your guy has a decent level of experience - it shouldn't hurt either.

Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating. Please begin by reading the FAQs, Posting Guidelines, and, the Index, all located at the top of the main screen. The Index lists many helpful informative articles and some how-to tips. Please read those that pertain to your questions or concerns, first.

Here is a link to an article that should get you off to a good start:

What Can I/We Do To Prepare For First Time Intercourse?

Hymens come in all different shapes, thicknesses, and some with one or more openings. Usually an intact hymen will provide a gap between it and the vaginal wall. This is where the tip of the penis should be positioned.

I believe all women should go on a "field trip" using a mirror and light in order to learn how they are made and what the hymen is like. Often by the time a girl reaches her late teen years, an active participation in sports and exercise will have already caused the hymen to rupture and erode away.

So, look at the Index and do some reading and if you have additional questions after doing some homework, please do not hesitate to ask.

Please DO NOT use texting shorthand. We appreciate reading questions and concerns that are written using the Queen's English, with punctuation, and good grammar.