Ok ive had sex a few times in my life which I have tried a few positions: Missionary, Doggy and Cowgirl. And I hated them all.
Missionary was ok but I felt usless. Like afterwards the guy mentioned to one of his friends whos a friend of mine that I just layed there like a board. The most I can think of doing is just sort of thrust my hips but thats about it.
Doggy is so awqward to me. The guy im sort of hooking up with love doggy and ive done it only once but its so weird. I hate my butt and I hate that the guy is behind there looking at it. Also I could never get comfortable doing it.
Cowgirl is the worst. I hate the bouncing up and down motion because I have very large breasts and I hate how the look and bounce. Plus it somethings hurts. Is rocking back in forth better?
What can I do to make these three positions better?^^
Now what I would like to know is what position is the best for both to get pleasure out of? Im not a very flexible/ strong person so alot of things seem/sound difficult to me. Any suggestions?
Last but not least blowjobs. I hate giving them but every guy I get with loves them and I eventually give in and go ahead with it. Now its not the whole me not liking a penis in my mouth things its just that I dont know what the hell im doing!!! I have never mastered deep throating and I just in general dont know how to make it feel good. Oh and after giving a blowjob, like after he cums and stuff, whats the best way to end it. Like do i just stop,lets say im on my knees, do I just stand up? What can I do to make it so like even though hes going down hes still aroused and wants more. Any suggestions?
Nevermind this is the last thing lol. How do you get a guy turned on in a short period of time. Like if your going to have to be quick about your business what can you do to turn a guy on with that short period of time and still have time to do your thing?
HELP ME!!!
Maybe you need to start with what parts of sex do you enjoy? Do you get any enjoyment out of it? Are you spending time with men who give you pleasure and get you aroused? Can you orgasm?
As far as positions; the three you mentioned are the most common. Stop being very self conscious, if you were aroused more and enjoying it you would be moving more. In Missionary, you can get your legs up on around his hips and clench you vaginal muscles around him. Doggie, rock back to meet against him to get the motion going. Female superior, get closer to his face with your face rather then in a straight up position and slide up and down him & grind against him as well. If you are enjoying it, he will notice.
As far as oral on him, skip the deep throat and read some of the threads here about what/how to do. Many male posters describe what they enjoyed, the most common was the woman who was confident & seeking to just please him. Try starting with gently licking his head and sucking (much like an ice cream cone) use a free hand and slide up and down his shaft. As your mouth takes him in more, slide your hand down in the same direction, make eye contact with him to see if he is enjoying it. You can use your other hand to gently cup his balls and to stroke them. See if he enjoys when you slide your tongue down and lick them. Link: http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_him/10856-blow-job_techniques_1...
How do you finish? You can stand up slowly working your way up his body until you reach his neck. If he is flat on the bed, just slowly lean back and lick your lips, keep eye contact.
How do you turn him on? By being seductive; kiss him, slowly remove some of your clothing and start rubbing down his chest until you are gently stroking his thighs, then slide your hand on his crotch. Tease. Be confident, play. Read some of the stickys in the forums on the various topics, see what people suggest. Link:http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new_sex/21912-one_stop_shopping--begin_h...
Most of all, I think you need to find out if you are enjoying it. If you are not, why go through all this until you can?
I do enjoy the sex. There are moments where its pure ectasy but they are always just moments. And its not like im afraid to have sex so I know its not performance anxiety. I always just thought maybe its just that one of us isnt doing something right. But thanks for your advice its greatly appreciated!
But another things I forgot to post is just sort of a random thought. Lets say you get caught up in the moment with a guy and head for a public rest room(eg. community complex/golf course restrooms etc). You would obvlious go into the largest stall right? Now once your there whats the best thing to do. Like where would you go. Would he sit on the toliet(with a closed lid obviously) and the girl straddle him or would it be better to go at it up against a wall? I always wondered this anyone care to help?