Everybody works different. I never had my first real kiss (like with tongue, or something other than just a peck) till after I had sex.
I know someone who recently gave her partner a blowjob for the first time and they've been together for years.
I know married men who have never received a blowjob from their wife and I know married women who refuse to give their husbands a blowjob.
So yea, everyone works different and does things different.
We all get around to them but, perhaps, in different order. There is much to learn giving handjobs. You figure how the man works and know what is going on inside you.
Before I went to visit an old friend last year, I never had taken a penis in my mouth and I was 30 then but I only felt comfortable doing it for a few minutes, thought it did turn my partner at the time on. I have been told by the same partner that my hand jobs are good especially my ball handling technique, given that was also my first time doing that. It takes practice and have been able to masturbate him the few times that we have hooked up and us fooling around occured but for me i'm still a novice and still need practice but have not had any complaints about it so far. I have asked while giving him a hand job, about how he is finding it, whether the technique for him is okay and if i was unsure I asked him to guide me so I could get it right... any way he seemed to like it as i brought him close to cumming a few times before he actaully came.
Sounds like you are doing everything right. Bravo and keep on keeping on.
Continue to teach each other and learning together. Remember that making love is not what we do to each other; rather, what we do with and for each other.
Everybody works different. I never had my first real kiss (like with tongue, or something other than just a peck) till after I had sex.
I know someone who recently gave her partner a blowjob for the first time and they've been together for years.
I know married men who have never received a blowjob from their wife and I know married women who refuse to give their husbands a blowjob.
So yea, everyone works different and does things different.
Having a "Quickie" often sidesteps these activities.
It maybe isn't weird, although, it certainly is terribly shortsighted.
haha, i'm still in that situation, i thought i was the only one =P
i think at least in my case i'm just shy, it's good to have an understanding boyfriend.
We all get around to them but, perhaps, in different order. There is much to learn giving handjobs. You figure how the man works and know what is going on inside you.
Before I went to visit an old friend last year, I never had taken a penis in my mouth and I was 30 then but I only felt comfortable doing it for a few minutes, thought it did turn my partner at the time on. I have been told by the same partner that my hand jobs are good especially my ball handling technique, given that was also my first time doing that. It takes practice and have been able to masturbate him the few times that we have hooked up and us fooling around occured but for me i'm still a novice and still need practice but have not had any complaints about it so far. I have asked while giving him a hand job, about how he is finding it, whether the technique for him is okay and if i was unsure I asked him to guide me so I could get it right... any way he seemed to like it as i brought him close to cumming a few times before he actaully came.
Sounds like you are doing everything right. Bravo and keep on keeping on.
Continue to teach each other and learning together. Remember that making love is not what we do to each other; rather, what we do with and for each other.