hello all, im new to the site and have one question thats been kind of on my mind for a while. me and my girl friend have been seeing each other a good few months and we've recently moved onto kissing, rubbing and lightly tickling (as in slowly and gently tracing my hand over her body). as well as this, where both not wanting to take things too far too soon, and so im restricted to only being allowed to touch her top half and sometimes her legs and thighs.. but not allowed to go to the "specail place". anyway, my question is, im familiar with kissing, licking and tickling her top half and legs of her body but i want to be able to make things seem more different and exciting and more pleasing to her. such like ideas are things like blind foldong her so shes unaware of what im doing, ursing food such as small sweets or whiped creame for me to eat/lick off and stuff like that. she is very sensitive to beinc touched in these places such has her arms, plams, neck stomach, thights and breasts and was wondering does anyone else here have any good alternitive ideas i could yous without having to go "down there" and keep her happy? i know from experance that it is really enjoyable for her already just if i can id like to make it even more so. this is also the first time she had had any experances like this and it is also the first time i have been involved in such activities. any help would be great, thanks to anyone and everyone
Yorkie_Lover
Sat, 05/07/2005 - 18:12
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playful ways to keep her happy
my girlfriend was the same way. we dated for a while before we did much down there because she never has before and i haev so that was a double whammy. not only was she nervous about doing it she was also nervous she wouldn't be as good as the others.
If you want to start towards moving down there do what I did.
1) start making out like normal touch her where she likes to be touched and kissed (neck, arms, collar bone.)
2) rub her legs and inside of thighs moving up toward the v-shape her legs make with her pelvic area
3) rub gently, but firm enough to feel, with your hand over her vagina over all her pants.
4) move to underware. asure her that you will not go under her underware and rub her like that
5) move under the underware. while rubbing over the underware slowly pull them aside and rub the sides of her bare vagina, gently.
6) then slide one finger in slowly.
from here its up to what she likes. it will take a few times for her to be comfortable with you doing this so dont expect to make her orgasm. after a couple times find out what she likes and do that.
hope that helps. i'll post more on the other question when i get back from home.
haha, so, her breasts, arms, stomach, neck... like pretty much everywhere?
*sigh
that is something we could do but thats another thing she would still like to pospone for a while, as well as that she doesnt masturbate. im pretty sure she is just allowing things to happen slowly, as there has been times where it has come close to activity down there. at the moment any ideas for things such as games, places or methods of toutching, kissing or other things to give pleasure for the top half of her body (stomach, breasts, neck, arms, etc as i know these are places she responds well to) would be greatly helpful
This might sound kinky to you but you could mastrubate together.
You don't have to touch each other and it is a very safe activity in terms of avoiding STDs. Also it is a big turn-on and you each get to learn how the other likes to be touched (for future reference of course. ;) )