An option I've seen used on amateur sites is to blur the face or use some other creative technique to keep the identity unrecognizable (a wide-brimmed hat over the face, long hair, head turned).

The concerns are real, but it's also a shame to live our lives in fear.

Well, i would love to take some sexy pics of my gf, we did make a video of us having sex a while ago, and i realy enjoy it. But the security conserns are very real. A good idea might be to put up a show for him like a streap tease, so he'll get a mental picture of you that he'll never forget.

It's not safe either. PIcs might get lost and someone might pick them up. Once again...bad breakup, he makes copies of them or scans them. No pics are 100% safe, not digital, not polaroid. Sorry

Okay, I rushed back to apologize. I just read your post to the other thread about porn.

So I'm sorry I "misjudged" your intentions. But you have no idea how happy I am that was wrong!

I supposed I could have edited out my error, but I also think everybody should go read the other thread and see an excellent example of a person (Monie, so there's no confusion) who is open to new information and thinking, and who understands how the business of relationships is always about change and adapting.

Oh, yeah. The other thing people can learn from this to beware of kangaroo reasoning. (Jumping to conclusions.)

My apologies to Monie.

Wally

Pictures, especially in this digital age, can live forever. How many have seen less than attractive pictures posted after a break-up? How many sites are dedicated to voyeurism and public nudity? Once they hit the net, they can travel forever. Both potential jobs and potential mates have been lost because of untimely disclosure of past photographic indiscretions.

Little Fury raises some excellent points... it's not just a matter of trusting the bf - there are any number of possible scenarios whereby your photos end up being less than private.

As I guy, would I love it? YES! (Don't suppose you'd consider sending me copies. LOL)

Considering your other posts about porn, I'm a little concerned that this is really about that. Do this because you want him to enjoy them, not so he'll stop looking at photos of other women, okay? (And if I'm off base, I apologize for even thinking that.)

ya if it boosts ur self esteem. u know u can look at porn too. dont be scared to do it. hes doing it. but if u dont want to u dont have to. and i dont think it is a 'guy thing'. i think it is just an individual thing. so ya.....i think its a pretty cool idea. and dont be afraid to be assertive with him.

hope i helped. best wishes

ONe thing though, remember, pictures are not always 100% private. I brought the same idea to my bf, but this raised many concerns. Computer might be hijacked, so other people might see those pics. Also, someone who's visiting might find the folder. Also...what happens if something goes wrong and you guys break up on really bad terms? Other methods are not too safe either. With each idea where are a lot of reasons that soemthing might go wrong to concider. Good luck.

im sure your guy would love that but just know that it won't be a replacement for the porn you were talking about before.
ive taken pics for my guy, we even made a short movie. i don't know if he even looks at them anymore, i know he still looks at his porn pics, oh well.
ive just learned ot get over it.
like they said, its a guy thing.