hi im sure im not the only one whos noticed all the publicty about so called pick up artists in the press recently mostly becuase of the book called 'the game'
i must admit it fascinates me and plan on getting the book soon. i just wondered if anyone has read it or knows and websites (forums preferably) based on it. thanks
Tue, 09/20/2005 - 16:27
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pick up artists!
yer but this post was ok werent it? stop winging others managed!!
[QUOTE=Quote (scruff @ Sep. 21 2005,14:53)]lol lonestar i hope that isnt sarcasim? i can never tell
yer i undertsand what you mean when you say its disgusting and sad but i cant help but find it fascinating[/QUOTE]
This is what I'm talking about...
A previous post of yours:
"hi im new to this board so hello to everyone
iv got a problem and any help wud b great, c every few weeks i seem to get this spot like lumb on my penis, sumtimes it has a white sorta liek the top of a spot on it sumtimes, its always around the base and stays for a few days it causes no pain jus embarssment. i do cut my pubes t i dnt think this would affetc it any ideas?"
So, I'm afraid that your sarcasm assessment is correct
no dont worri i didnt take offence everyone has their own opnion. and yours is understanble. but i wouldnt neccesarily want to use these techniques,just beacuase i dont (like u) liek the idea of meeting a random girl just for sex (ven men have morals). but i do wonder if it'd help my confidence in talkin to women
Scruff- I may have been a little tough on you in the last post. I can see how it's fascinating, what guy doesn't want to be able to get any women he wants. But it's that "wreck by the side of the road" type of fascination. You know it's not right, but you want to look anyway.
You could learn to become a pickup artist just to meet girls you'd like to date, but what happens when you find one you want to stay with. Sooner or later she's going to learn that the guy who first approached her is not the "real" you. The glue that holds this whole thing together is not seeing the same girl consistantly. You have to go from one to another, even if you don't want to, because if you can't reveal your true self. You're just using them for sex. It's dishonest to her and you.
I'm not going to tell you not to learn about it, but I wouldn't help you either. Just think hard about what kind of behavior this promotes, and whether you really want to be the kind of guy that pursues it.
lol lonestar i hope that isnt sarcasim? i can never tell
yer i undertsand what you mean when you say its disgusting and sad but i cant help but find it fascinating
WOW!!! Scruff, the grammar lessons are working, eh?
I know I'm going to regret getting into this, but...
I'm not sure if I can articulate how disrespectful I find this kind of behavior. I have a daughter who will one day start dating. In the process of educating myself on modern dating, I have seen some of the sites that teach this "system". While I'm sure it works to some extent, it's a detestable way of treating women. In my opinion, it's also a sad way for a man to spend his life, changing your own personality just to meet women. I hope this book will bring it far enough into the open for women to become wise to it.
Girls, know your enemy. If any of you would like to educate yourselves, PM me and I'll give you some links.