Hello everyone. I've been getting to know this girl for a few months and she's about to have to move off for several months, so we are going to do the phone/skype sex thing as an alternative. She wants me to be dominant and tell her what to do (direct quote: "I take direction very well. Because even if I resist you, it still turns me on and I will still want to give it to you, especially if it embarrasses me.")
So my #1 question, what are some suggestions of things I could tell her to do that may embarrass her a bit but still feel good to her etc? I've never done anything at this level before, almost slave/master type things is what she seems to be up for. Suggestions?
Thanks!
Well...since girls need a good half an hour or more in order to get their "motor" running and warmed up and reving pretty good, why not instruct her where to place her hands, how, and with how much pressure and doing so in an ever progressing manner.
Please read the articles in the Index regarding the how-to's of making out and put the suggestions to good use using her hands at your command instead of yours.
Talk to her about fingering her hair
Talk to her about caressing her cheeks with the back of her hands
Talk to her about licking her fingers and imagining that they are yours
Talk to her about caressing an earlobe
Talk to her about caressing her shoulders
Ask her to moisten a finger tip and to caress her lips slowly and seductively
Instruct her to lightly caress her chest and abdomen keeping away from her breasts for the time being. Her clothes should be on. Later you can command her to undo/unfasten or loosen buttons, bras, shirttails, etc.
Continue on in progressive steps from A to B to C, revisiting A and B, adding D and E, etc. Take this as far as the two of you want. I leave the rest to your imagination, using the above as your guide.