:confused: I understand and agree that phone sex can be an exceptionally gratifying experience for both partners. Have a question though..... I met a man online over two years ago - yes I said two years! We started out chatting through the website, then instant messaging, then moved on to phone calls. At first it was simply talk- my life his life etc. We gradually moved into the rhealm of meeting ( he lives in another state ) but he always backed off. Never really knew why but since then we have gravitated to phone sex , which I confess I truly love. He is so very good at it, nah GREAT would be more accurate.

Question is? Why would a man continue this interest? I have heard every theory from " he probably can't do it for real" to " he is afraid to meet you but this serves as some sexual connection." But for two years!!!!!!!!!!!!!!???? that seems like an awfully long time to continue this when he could be meeting other women and getting real sex. I would also like an opinion as to thwether or not you ( a man ) could develop intimate feelings for your phone sex partner. Especially if he has been persuing me
( He almst always initiates contact ) and can call for days, several times a day, then not for weeks. It's not always about sex. But would a man actaully do this if there were no feelings at all for me? Why would he just move on? I also confess to have developed a bond with this man. Could he have also? or is it just a convenience to him?

Any thoughts or opinions would be appreciated.

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