When I masturbate, I get to a point where everything becomes sensitive, my vaginal walls pulsate and what I think is a small amount of pee uncontrollably leaks out. But I don't think it's an orgasm. After, the sensitivity goes.
Any suggestions as to what is going on here?
Indigo, what happens if you keep going? Back off a bit when you become sensitive, but try continuing.
You're a beginner so what did you expect? Sex gets better with practice and knowledge.
If it is an orgasm, it's severely disappointing. It doesn't feel bad, but it doesn't really feel good and I feel pretty unsatisfied afterwards. Damn my useless body.
It isn't urine (pee but using adult language), it is ejaculate and yes, you did orgasm. You're welcome.
I agree with both. It takes practice and self-control. Try concentrating on other areas besides just the clitoral area. Those are good orgasms, but short and intense ones. When you feel your thigh muscles begin to tighten (that is generally when I can tell) move down some and explore a new area then go back to what you were doing and keep alternating. Just a few suggestions..;)