I was talking with a friend, and she found that people who are generally quiet or reserved tend to be more rough in bed, while people who can easily dominate social situations and are very confident in conversation tend to be more submissive. Do you find this to be true at all?
Also, I wonder whether people who are compatible sexually tend to find each other based on other aspects of their respective personalities. This was true for me; my partner and I fit perfectly. Is this a Freudian slip, or a mere coincidence?
I do not agree with the observation made in the first paragraph.
As for the second paragraph, call it being in the right place at the right time in a place with calm air so that each of your pharamones were able to glide between you and hold on.
Seen men who are wall flowers who are sexually assertive and seen other's who are not. Same holds true in reverse. There is no stereotypical behavior to judge what one is like in bed.
I have seen people be compatible in their relationships but not sexually. I believe it's a Doc said pheromones; additionally, I believe it's the individuals libidos and the extent of trust & the degree of emotional connection between the partners.