just try and relax about it.

[QUOTE=tull29;163143]I've currently started dating a girl. We've been seeing each other for about the last 2 months. We've been somewhat sexually active. But I've been experiencing a lot of erection issues related to performance anxiety and condoms. I feel that I need a lot of constant stimulation for me to stay hard. For instance when I get erect and we go to put the condom on I start to go soft. I just think my erection shouldn't go down so quickly.

My last relationship ended due to this issue which hurt me very much and I'm still trying to get over. I loved that girl very much and put a lot of pressure to please her sexually which I feel turned out to be my worst enemy. She basically got frustrated and I think this problem is starting to frustrate my current g-friend. When I masturbate I get an erection easily. So basically I have 2 questions.

1. Is this normal to happen?

2. Any recommendations?

Thanks[/QUOTE]

How old are you and if your over 30 years old, you may be having low testosterone problems......Not uncommon......If your 18 then maybe its just anxiety, but when i was that age my biggest problem was that it wouldn't go down...lol