Well since I'm new I thought I would post something.
I consider myself a perfectionist. Just about anything I do, I always look for better ways to do it until I get it down. Well I'm extremely like this when it comes to the wife, hence why my screen name says it all. I've perfected the art of orgasms with her being able to help her achieve clitorial, vaginal, and the gspot orgasm (before and during intercourse). she even goes off like a water fountain if i hit her spot a certain way, which I know is hard for most women to achieve. And since I'm able to make her feel like this, my sex life is beyond great!!
So now I'm here reading what other people are posting, not only to throw my 2 cents out there, but also to learn.
So what's something that that you should be perfecting to benefit your lady sexually, emotionally, or mentally?
oh i forgot....personally me, i'm working on showing my wife more affection.......just like the days when i first met her......the small things in life......i always tell her i love her.....i've been opening up to her more tell her HOW I FEEL......it's a hard thing for a man to talk about feelings....well feelings in a sense that women talk about them
Also i'm learning to accept what she's saying to me without trying to solve the problem....whether it's something that happened to someone, a problem she has at work, or something that i find stupid.......i'm always quick to try to solve things instead of listen listen listen....accept it, and then reflect back to her maybe a different view of things....basically just discuss it.....anyway, work in progress
It would be hard to improve, maybe you should give other men lessons. ;) I don't know how your foreplay is, but some things that would drive me crazy are little touches during the day. Run your fingers lightly across her arm sometimes (not just before sex), and/or your hand very slowly down her back. Walk away and leave her to think about you and your touches for awhile, and then the excitement will build all day, leading to some passionate lovin. Catch her eyes and stare at her deeply, with a look on your face saying "I'm going to give it to you really good later." or immediately....Always think about the mental side of sex.
Well, with eight posts in your first four hours of membership it would appear that you are more interested in quantity and your own ego than you are in the quality insight that you may be able to offer. Perhaps there is another path to your desired perfection?
Clitoral, vaginal and G-Spot orgasm. Interesting differentiation given that the G-Spot is not a certainty and vaginal orgasms are generally attributes to various tissue manipulating the hood over the clitoris.
OOOps! Make that nine.
[QUOTE=Brandye;255004]Well, with eight posts in your first four hours of membership it would appear that you are more interested in quantity and your own ego than you are in the quality insight that you may be able to offer. Perhaps there is another path to your desired perfection?
Clitoral, vaginal and G-Spot orgasm. Interesting differentiation given that the G-Spot is not a certainty and vaginal orgasms are generally attributes to various tissue manipulating the hood over the clitoris.
OOOps! Make that nine.[/QUOTE]
I'm not here for ego reasons.....and in eight posts, i was giving my opinion/view of things....i don't know everything, but i don't mind sharing what i know nor learning what i don't know
oh and the G-Spot is certain
Thank you. I shall advise the medical community forthwith.