okay so im 18 years old and i doubt my penis is still gonna grow no joke im about 2inches erect and my gf knows im small. shes seen it, she says shes okay with it but its really annoying that theres nothing i can do about the size, i mean i can give her oral and all that ive read up on it and i do what she says feels really good. i feel like i wouldnt be able to satisfy her through penetration because i prolly wouldnt be able to do any positions. we havent tried sex cuz im too scared that im way to small and its just gonna lead to disappointment. we've talked about it a couple times but i dont know what to do is there anything i can do? intercourse wise? or do i just have what i have and thats that... anyways any help would be appreciated thanks.
Tue, 04/24/2007 - 02:44
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penis too small?
thanks so much everyone for your support!
You have to look for positions which make the most of size--look on this site under position finder. Also look through Kama Sutra positions.
Well you have gotten over the biggest hurdle...which is she's seen it and knows how big it is... And she hasn't run for the hills! :)
Has she ever pleasured you? such as oral or handjobs?
It's good that you guys have discussed it..etc.
I can't imagine what you are going through, but it's like with anything else in life.... if you are lacking in certain areas, you just make up for them in other areas. Don't let this ruin this relationship or any future ones... b/c you assume nothing good can be done.
Are you still a virgin? or jsut haven't had sex w/ this particular girl?
There isn't anything you can do about your penis size... so you just have to make the best of what God gave you. I don't want to compare this to having a handicap or anything THAT drastic...but you get the idea... people w/ handicaps find other ways of doing the same things people w/out handicaps do.... they just do it in their own way. They try not to let their handicaps dominate their lives and define who they are! If you do, you might miss out on a lot.
thanks for the feedback and yeah im a virgin, doesnt bother me tho
Nothing wrong w/ that... I was a virgin till I was 22.
i had an bf, (dated for a year and a half) and he also came quite short of average, but we had incredible sex all the time! so it is possible! you just have to try different and new things to find out what works for you. we ended up finding the perfect position for 100% satisfaction just about every time. but it is all about being comfortable and trying new things with someone you are completely comfortable with... but i promise you... there are some amazing things you cando out there!
I admire your matter of fact approach and your girlfrined's understanding. Around 1% of the male population has penis' in this range. It borders on being a "micorphallus" and that was determined sometime in the later part of the second trimester of your mother's pregnancy with you. Nothing she did; you simply got a low shot of hormones that would have started it growing. There are some websites that describe surgery to increase the length but there is more risk than payoff if you are able to function. A urologist, which I am not, would be able to discuss this better. You wil also find hormonal treatments but those would be applicable only during infancy and are questionable in their efficacy.
Luvbunny gives you good advice. One thing you and future partners will have to keep in mind is weight. When men gain weight, it is often in the lower abdomen and that would cause problems. Read some of the posts on female orgasm. Many of us do not reach orgasm through pentration and thrusting so this may not be as big a deal as some would think.
I would encourage you, and a potential wife when that time comes, to discuss this with a urologist so that each of you has a good understanding of what will be possible.
dude 2 inches sorry man...just try the penis pills since ur old enough 2 buy...what other choice is there really
Youngmikey is, most certainly, as his account name suggests: young. I wouldn't recommend buying those pills you see advertised in your spam box. You've already received good advice.
There are methods that you can use to enlarge your penis naturally. I have been using them for about 3 months and I went from 5" to 5.7". I am very happy, the extra bit makes all the difference. I will keep working at it though, my goal is 6.5".
[QUOTE=conors;176946]There are methods that you can use to enlarge your penis naturally. I have been using them for about 3 months and I went from 5" to 5.7". I am very happy, the extra bit makes all the difference. I will keep working at it though, my goal is 6.5".[/QUOTE]
the extra bit make all the difference to who ???:confused:
[QUOTE=youngmikey;176911]dude 2 inches sorry man...just try the penis pills since ur old enough 2 buy...what other choice is there really[/QUOTE]
Penis pills are just a scam. The only thing you will gain is another charge on your credit card.
Usually size is not really an issue, but 2" does sound unusually small, especially at 18yo. I'm not sure how easy it would be to achieve penetration with a penis that small. It might be a good idea to seek some medical advice regarding hormone treatments.
I think normal length when erect varies from around 5" to 6.5", or thereabouts. (I'm 6" by the way.)
[QUOTE=foxdan;177005]the extra bit make all the difference to who ???:confused:[/QUOTE]
To me! LOL. My GF doesn't mind it either!
At least you've been open about it with your partner. I'm sure you'll make her toes curl!
You can try using some sex toys, I'm not very big either so I have to improvise.
Inked your 4.5 inches long. You have no reason to Improvise.
To the OP, penis extension are a scam, some might make you bigger, but they are simply because they force more blood into your penis, so its bigger for the time being. Once you stop taking them, your back to normal so if you really wanna pay 40 bucks every two weeks for the rest of your life, then go right ahead.
Brandye gives the best advice, go visit your urologist, and ask them about it. Discuss options, see if the benefits outweigh the risks. I mean your girlfriend is still around so your past the biggest hurdle.
Dont worry about sex though ok! I mean if you read around here, you'll notice a wonderful article from doc that states, most nerve endings are in the first 2 inches of the vagina. I mean you can brush up on oral skills, do some research on positions, and just enjoy your life!
Best of luck
[QUOTE=Ducy;215663]Inked your 4.5 inches long. You have no reason to Improvise.[/QUOTE]
I constantly encounter problems with PE. So I have to improvise.
Women enjoy the feeling of fullness, not really the length. Anyway, size really isn't an issue, it is more how good and attentive a lover you are. Really. That is the most important thing and since you and your gf have gotten to this point, the next step is just experimentation. Try different positions and just play around, get to know what angles work and you'll be good to go. Good luck to you!
Im about 4.5 inches, 5(on good days maybe)
I thought I was too small, didnt have much self-esteem when it came to sex. and I had troubles during the first like, 6 months.
Her ex had 9"-10" or something like that...that didnt help me when she told me that.
Her Ex never gave her an orgasm, and she said it never felt all that great, she never got pleasure from it.
She told me when she first saw my size, she was dissapointed, and "it was a let down"
But shes not dissapointed anymore. ;)
I get her off...
Try Finding a position(s) that work for you.
We've done positions that I would never have thought I could "Reach" lol.
The nerve endings in are during the first two inches in the vagina, so you should be set to go.
If she didnt dump you, and said she's ok with it...whats the problem?
DONT WORRY.
If you worry, or get depressed about your size your relationship will turn to ****.