a girl only needs like 1 and a half inches to be pleased really on stats show. though the more the bonus... im 17 with a 7.6inch and i asked my gf about your 'situation' and if i was in your shoes.. she said size does not matter because she should love u for u and not your body. though my gf considers herself lucky she would not care if i had a 2 inch or a 15 inch penis because she loves me for me..

and if i was in your shoes i would not worry dude. its fine. i doubt she will care

to add to what viper and brown eyed girl said you do not need a big penis to get a girl to orgasm once you are more furmiluar with her body you will find what makes her feel good. most females have 3 gspots explore these. the most common one is about 2 in deep and up the other two are on the bottom 5 oclock and 9 oclock and are about 1 1/2 to 2 1/2 in deep. liek brown eyed said foreplay and communication. dotn be afraid to talk to her and ask her what feels good to her. having the open communication and what not i dotn think she will be focused on the size of your penis. and mos def figure out how to use a condom =P be safe and enjoy.

lol oh man, that's priceless. I'm taking a screen shot

Hmm, I don't understand Sirene's comment....

Well, first of all, 16 isn't that old. You don't need to be embarrassed about being a virgin. Make sure you are honest with the girl - it'll ease your worry and make her more understanding if she isn't a virgin.

As for size, I don't think you should be worried. For one thing, very few girls orgasm from just sex, regardless of penis size. Most girls (about 75%) require clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. Also, at 16 many girls aren't comfortable enough with their bodies and their partners to reach orgasm anyway. So.... it's not the end of the world, or necessarily your fault, if she doesn't orgasm with you. Especially your first time having sex together, it is unlikely that she will orgasm. That's not because of your size, it's because girls just aren't programmed to orgasm immediately from sex like guys are. We're just more complicated than that.

Because most girls don't orgasm from sex alone, it's important to remember that foreplay is very important. Of course, foreplay is important becuase it warms you both up for sex, making the end result better and assuring that she is wet enough and relaxed enough for it to be comfortable. But in terms of female pleasure, foreplay is also extremely important because that is where many girls experience their orgasms, rather than from actual penetration. So... ask her what feels good, and keep doing it. Also, many guys will stop after a little while of fingering or going down on a girl - I would advise against stopping until she tells you to. Girls often take a lot longer to reach orgasm than guys, so sometimes guys stop an activity after a course of time when they assume the girl must have orgasmed, but she hasn't.

To make sex more exciting for her, you can also rub her clit during intercourse in positions like doggy or girl on top. Kiss her neck or suck on her breasts to add some stimulation for her. Communicate about what you both like. Sex takes a while to master, but remember that it's supposed to be fun. Don't be ashamed if she's not moaning and panting - what you see in porn is NOT what you get.

And, WEAR A CONDOM!!! Try on a condom beforehand so you know how to put one on and are comfortable with it. DO NOT CONSIDER HAVING SEX WITHOUT ONE!!!! You might also want to talk to her about hormonal birth control or a backup birth control method, like spermicide. Good luck!

Good one browneyedgirl and yes there should always be a backup to a condom. The reason for that is a thread that I've started yesterday "what are the first symptomes of pregnancy". My GF too pill's before but she stopped because we weren't able to get her to orgasm, so we kinda blamed the pill and she stopped taking it. After it was out of her system she started to have orgasm but we don't know if it was the pill or if it me chaning my tactics, beause I do it periodicly. So he's gonnabe be getting back on the pill and we'll see if it really does anything bad.