This is very frustrating. I know everyone says "size doesn't matter," but my penis is 5 inches long.
No matter what position I do, she pops out...
missionary, I have little control over it popping out
girl on top, she's going up and down and goes up too far
doggy, my abs hurt too much from all the physical effort to carefully make sure i stay in
I dont know what to do. This is humiliating. I cant enjoy sex, even bad sex, without continually popping out. I cant even NOT give her an orgasms because intercourse is just humping for period of 30 seconds with mt constantly reinserting my penis.
Is this just what life is going to be forever, as I dont I really see anyway of fixing this without having to be extremely picky about positions.
I mean, will have to carefully coordinate with every future girlfriend as to how we must have sex?
Thanks.
Well, all of us do some coordinating simply because all positions do not work or are not comfortable for all of us.
An obvious solution is with her on top using a grinding motion rather than up and down. Generally, a woman on top likes this better anyway and is less stress on our legs. Similarly, in missionary position do not thrust as much and you do some grinding - the higher she raises her knees, the less the space between you. A good position for a late term pregnant woman may help: she lays on her back with her legs draped over you laying crosswise - gives each of you complete access to critical parts of both.
You are within the normal range of length and this can be worked out with a little imagination. Unless, one or both of you is on the real heavy side and then fat spearates you. Another reason to keep in shape.
Maybe you've been watching too many X-rated movies. You don't have to keep pulling it in and out like in the videos, that's just for the camera. Find a position where you maintain close body contact with your penis in the vagina, and try making slow gentle movements.
Yes, and she also. I've seen a lot of amateur/pro movies where guys have smaller penis size than you and they did not really had any problem with it. I'm just not sure if you can go berserk.
Pulling the penis all the way in and out when thrusting is most likely the culprit, as others have said. Try keeping it mostly inside and do slower gentle stuff. Experiment with moving it around while keeping it inside her and ask her what she likes. Too much lubrication can also be an issue, making the penis all slippery. Don't worry about your size. It is not the problem, trust me. And don't worry about being "like this forever", the best way to fix the problem is to practice! Another thing I suggest is that if she is on the bottom and you find yourself popping out you could try having her lift up her hips a little or lifting them up for her so that they are closer to your body. This feels really good for both people, in my opinion! Good luck!
To say long story short, don't use the in-out movement (Or her) but the circular movement. EG: You insert it and then roll up-down and around without dejecting it. Works the same way.
Yeah, grind rather than thrust.
well, i'm 16 years old and its about the same size maybe a wee bit bigger,and it has happened 2 me twice.Its probably the way you are using it & the position that ur in.we do missionary the most.
Also try slowing down a bit more but thrust harder
i don't really think it's size that causes that to happen...my guy is pretty big and sometimes it still happens if we go too fast
when my guy is on top i actually prefer him to lie on me completely, bringing his entire body as close to me as possible, and as Brandye said use more of a "grinding" motion