You're only 13, that's why your penis is still small. There is no technique that will help. That being said, there is something that will...time. If you haven't started to grow yet, then you aren't physically ready for sex, much less emotionally. If you and your girlfriend wait a couple of years, things will probably be very different.

You cannot force it to grow! No pills, devices, etc. You need time to grow give it a while.

I agree that if anything it's nature's way of telling you you aren't quite ready yet.
Are you able to ejaculate? There have been several threads lately of pre-teens who are wondering when they will be able to... and Doc explains that when puberty hits.. then that's when you are able to.

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For God's sake use condoms and whatever else you can get your hands on.

I have to say, 13 is a little young, maybe you should consider waiting.

In answer to your actual post, there's nothing you can do but wait.

just sit tight and wait what on earth do you want to be doing at just 13 ? you are not physically mature enough and probably won't enjoy it, if you can ejaculate at your age chances are you will cum before you even put your penis in her vagina, you penis will grow over time and nothing will make it grow bigger all pills and other codswalla are just cons so don't try any of that crap it will probably harm you. just relax and enjoy yourselves other ways there's plenty you can do without actual sex

Part of what needs to be included in "the talk" parents have with their children about love, sex, and the teenage years are:

* That even though you are physically capable of fathering a child, the emotional maturity and responsibility come along later.

* Adolescence is a ten year process and you are only at year two. There are many things yet to happen to you, physically and mentally.

I urge that you continue to be a boy for another five or six years enjoying your childhood. You have the whole rest of a very long life to be an adult, why rush when Mother Nature has only partially prepared you. There is much more to making love and going the whole way than you now realize or can appreciate. This aspect of the process is part of your ten year "plan" of growing up and will take a few more years.

If my wish for the two of you falls upon deaf ears, then please PLEASE be responsible and use a condom and spermicide in order to prevent an unwanted pregnancy. People in your age range are more apt to create new life than at any other time and you need to be and act responsibly.

Im no dino (seeing as im 20) like some of these people (no offense) and even I suggest you wait at least 2 years for your own good. Your underdeveloped, like doc said you have no possible way of supporting a child which means if you get her pregnant your ****ed for a long time and both of your lives are ruined, and I would like to believe you two should not make a decision based on lust, think about it more and what it really means. Wait on it, youll have your share when the time comes.

So far we have only been talking about you. What about your friend?

* Her body is not yet fully developed, and this very importantly means her bone structure. This is a major reason for her not to tempt intercourse yet, and running the risk of becoming pregnant. Even if the two of you use protection, the odds are much greater than at any other age that she will become pregnant.

* Second, unlike you, she is most likely unable to achieve an orgasm. So, while the experience may be emotionally pleasurable, it will not necessarily be for her what it will be for you.

You do not have to read through too many threads on this site to learn how difficult it is some couples to actually have intercourse the first few times. This has to do with the fact that the vaginal opening is small in diameter and often will not let a penis enter. That coupled with the fact that if her hymen is intact, you may have difficulty breaching it which also may be painful for her. **

* Third, is that regardless of the age or the experience of the two people involved, sex with any new partner is often less than perfect the first few times. It takes some time to work out and perfect. So, if this is going to be a one-shot experience, know that it might not necessarily be all that you want it to be.

* Fourth, because she will most likely not experience an orgasm, why take her virginity at such a tender age. When she becomes older she will know more and one of the facts she will learn is that loosing one's virginity at a young age is not something she as an older woman, now, would have liked not to have done. This has been reported here many times, you do not have to take my word on this.

* Fifth, since you will most likely get your rocks off just fine, why not just stick to fingering?

* Sixth, failing this, just stick to masturbation for the next few years and wait for your emotional and mental maturity and a bit more experience with life in general to work their collective magic on you?

** Seventh, do you know where this act will take place you decide to do it? Will it be one of your beds or outside behind the barn so to speak? If on a bed, have you thought about what to do about any blood loss if her hymen is intact and is broken? Place a towel under her. Hint..hint.

[QUOTE=Rosss;185596]doc , she wares a D bra size and shes taller than me lol[/QUOTE]

hopefully she is smarter too as you seem a bit dense, to put it in many words please read this http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/sexual_health_women/11675-am_i_ready_sex... very very carefully, and hopefully some light will shine through into your reasoning

Girls usually mature sooner than boys.
Just b/c she feels she might be ready... doesn't mean that you are.
And just b/c her body is physically maturing doesn't automatically mean her mind is and that she's emotionally ready for the responsibility that comes along w/ it.

if your not close enough to reveal yourself and know that she will like you for who you are then your not emotionally ready and also if your not into puberty enough to be fairly close to an average size your not physically ready either

Boob size and height has nothing to do with how enjoyable sex will be.
If you are going to do it, like the others said, be very very careful.

I would try waiting though, I know you are both probably desperate for it, but just try sticking to oral and fingering/wanking for now.

[QUOTE=Rosss;185692]ok guys well thanks for the advice ill just try and keep away from all that jazz lmao[/QUOTE]

Doesn't sound very convincing :rolleyes:

Well you only have 2 options, either get over it, and work w/ what you got.... or wait a bit and see if something grows!

we cannot change what you are sure about. the fact is, if you are physically not mature yet, it won't even be that much fun. if you wait, get to know your own body, it will be much more worth it once you start.

here, you can look at it this way too. think of a condom as a goalkeeper in a socker game. with each orgasm you have, you put out several MILLION players on the field, all you need is one of those MILLION players to get a goal. the goalkeeper cant keep them all out every single time.

you think it wont happen to you. but when it does, it will really screw up your life at your young age. My little brother did exactly what you are asking about. he had a little girl that he had to give up for adoption because the two of them were too young to take care of her, it has hurt not only the two of them, but the ENTIRE family. dont think that sex just affects you. At your age it affects everyone on your family.

For your sake, stick to non penetrative things. We are not here to be mean, or to play games with you, none of us know you. We are trying to help keep you from making a mistake that can destroy your life.

[QUOTE=Lovemonkey;185711]

For your sake, stick to non penetrative things. We are not here to be mean, or to play games with you, none of us know you. We are trying to help keep you from making a mistake that can destroy your life.[/QUOTE]

very well put

[QUOTE=Lovemonkey;185711]
For your sake, stick to non penetrative things. We are not here to be mean, or to play games with you, none of us know you. We are trying to help keep you from making a mistake that can destroy your life.[/QUOTE]

Not just your life, but when you get someone pregnent you ruin 3 lives: Yours, your girlfriends, and your childs.

You should not have sex until you are emotionally and fiscally prepared for potential consequences.

[QUOTE=Raidenator;185372]For God's sake use condoms and whatever else you can get your hands on.

I have to say, 13 is a little young, maybe you should consider waiting.

In answer to your actual post, there's nothing you can do but wait.[/QUOTE]

13 is WAY TO YOUNG. Why is it that kids are having kids? Its because kids are having sex. Harsh? Im sorry but it just doesnt make sense to me. I know that at your age it is hard but think with the head on your shoulders PLEASE.

Your mind might be ready, but your body is not. When I was younger, I had the opposite problem. My body had intense sexual urges but I was too nervous for it.

Perhaps you should wait, you haven't finished puberty, you've barely started.

Dude, come on wait till your older. personally at 13 i dont believe you are emotinally ready for sex. your just a baby still