Hello there.
First of all, I've been a long time reader. This forum has been a great help to me. I would have known much less without it :)
Anyway, I'm pretty new to sex, but have been doing it for a couple of weeks now, quite successfully if I may add. However, there's this little issue:
In all positions, except for the missionary one, my penis keeps getting out of the vagina opening during the intercourse. My penis is erect and she's wet, but after a few moments in a certain position, the penis keeps coming out, and I should reinsert it and "start all over again". Needless to say, its kind of a problem, because after a few times it "slips out", she "gives up" and we go back to the missionary position.
Is this thing common? How could I avoid such a problem? I try to minimize my pelvis movements but still want to have some kind of friction.
Sorry for my English, its not my mother tongue.
Thanks in advance.
This is not uncommon.
I am reminded of the man who went to the doctor complaining that his arm hurt when he raised it over his head. The doctor replied that he wouldn't hurt if he kept his arm lowered. So, if you slip out, then perhaps the solution is to shorten your strokes.
Even when you do slip out it is no big deal. Shucks, you can tease her a little by stroking a bit, pulling out and then very tentatively reinserting your penis yet not all the way for a second or two. This can be a good thing depending on how you view the situation.
Also, you should know and understand that very few positions permit a woman to climax from stroking and thrusting. This being the case what a knowledgeable skilled caring lover does is to reach around and finger her while stroking.
Lastly:
> I try to minimize my pelvis movements but still want to have some kind of friction.
I understand. One way to fix this is to begin intercourse only when you have achieved a very high state of arousal before entering. Stroking maintains this high state of arousal, and, thrusting peaks it and transports us beyond the threshold of a climax. If you are not sufficiently aroused then the two of you need to spend more time fooling around, first.
Your English is fine, and, certainly much more enjoyable to read than some cryptic writing comprised of internet shorthand that some people resort to.
I hope this is of help. Got questons?