I noticed a load of sex positions (beginner to advanced) require the penis to bend downward. I was under the belief that when the penis is erect it points upward and/or away from the body. Last time i had sex, i felt this downwardish but still pointing outward angle was quite resisting to the natural direction of my dick. It also was putting more pressure on it, thus making me cum faster.
(missionary is an example of one of these dick bending downward positions)
why is this? am i just not flexable in the dick? (to rigid?)
As we all know, there are a variety of shapes and sizes when it comes to penis'. There are also styles in addition to shapes, and this includes the fact that some are straight, some angle upward or downward, while others list to the left or the right. Add to this that some also bend one direction or another rather than simply having an angle that begins at the base. The usual cause for each individuality is because of uneven growth patterns between the left and right or top and bottom sides of the shaft while it is developing its adult form.
I have two suggestions for finding a comfortable "fit" with your partner; first, work together or separately in order to adjust a position that you find uncomfortable. If this does not work, then try a different position. Please click on the site's Home Page to find a long list of animated illustrations.
If you find yourself ready to climax before you desire to, then apply one of the techniques used to delay this, such as the "squeeze technique", "pausing stroking", or, the exercise listed in one of the articles found in the Index.
this helps with my question, whether the penis naturally points downward when erect on some men. since I had never seen it that way before, I was a little surprised.....I didnt want to sound like an idiot and ask him why it did that. I haven't been with many men, so thats why I came on here for my answer. and what are the positions? can you tell me or help me find some to help him fit better with me? he is kind of a beginner too....we are trying to find positions to use.
Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you will enjoy participating.
Please click on the site's Home Page and go to the section that contains illustrated animated sexual positions by category. Do not be afraid to experiment and see what works for the two of you. Begin with using the Woman Superior/Cowgirl position. This is a recommended position for new people or virgins because it places the woman in control. She knows where P & V are and can deftly bring the two together, possibly saving the man some angst. In addition, she can govern the amount of pressure to use for insertion, where best to position the tip of the penis, the pressure to use, the speed and depth of penetration.
Beyond this, just look at those of interest and give these a try, adjusting if required and make your own determination for what works and does not.
I hope this is of help. Got questions?
Please familiarize yourself with the Index found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about--including first time intercourse. Read each article, discuss what you have read and add the information to what each of you already knows. Knowledge is empowering!
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Every penis is different. I read recently that the most common curvature is upward, but some curve downward, some to the right, some to the left (when they called Bill Clinton lefty it wasn't his politics they were talking about) and still others are almost straight. You might find that certain positions are uncomfortable for the shape of your penis. I know I do. You might find that certain positions lend themselves to reaching orgasm faster for you and or your partner. Every human being is unique. Use this knowledge to your advantage.
I have encountered many penis' in my professional and personal lives. All of them in my personal life have been erect at some point. They point all possible directions when erect from up all the way against the lower belly to drooping distinctly downward. They curve left and they curve right whilst going up or down. The only thing I have not encountered is a perfectly straight penis pointed directly to the fore.
Some have had such an angle as to preclude certain positions or direct us to other positions. If it works, you are quite normal. Harken to dlb's advice.
Kegels exercises help me to raise the level of erection from 6 to 3 O"clock position
[QUOTE=kievan;277039]Kegels exercises help me to raise the level of erection from 6 to 3 O"clock position[/QUOTE]
Mine is at about quarter past 12 which makes reverse cowgirl rather unpleasant for me.