I am 17 and about to lose my virginity to a wonderful girl. I just have a few questions and concerns. She is not a virgin and her previous boyfriend had an 8" penis and she said she loved it. Mine is only 5" when erect so I was wondering if she will feel a major difference and if it would be less pleasurable to her? She has told me she likes it hard. Also, I was wondering when the average penis stops growing?
Thank you.
I was also wondering if it would be better to use a spermicide condom then a basic condom?
Okay both of these questions are answered if you look around.
I cant answer the first question. Cuz Im not a girl.
But the spermicide condom and regular condom has no difference except for the fact that the spermicidal condom has a shorter shelf life. What you should do is buy some sperimicidal foam, lube, or VCF and use a condom as well becaus there is not enough spermicde on spermicidal condoms to make a difference.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new-sex/24615-im-ready-sex-am-i-i-really...
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new-sex/11518-penis-size-101-a.html
What I don't get is why a chick would even tell her b/f... oh my previous b/f was 8 inches and I LOVED IT!!!
I seriously have been w/ my b/f for 5+ years and I have never measured his penis. I think before he's told me it was 7 inches. All I know is for me it's a good size :)
[quote=demonbuttercup;215034]What I don't get is why a chick would even tell her b/f... oh my previous b/f was 8 inches and I LOVED IT!!!
I seriously have been w/ my b/f for 5+ years and I have never measured his penis. I think before he's told me it was 7 inches. All I know is for me it's a good size :)[/quote] Seems sort of strange to me as well! I don't go around measuring them, don't particularly care to either, more depend on how user friendly it is!
The only reason I knew my former fiance & first husband were large? I bought clothing from time to time for them. Once I purchased a pair of shorts and bathing suit for my former fiance, could not understand why he blatantly said they will not work, too short. He tried them on and well, hung out of the end of them! It was pretty funny, best part was when he tried to show me what happens when he sat down! It was a shame he had to wear longer shorts since he had good legs but would be giving everyone a show if they were too short!
Size? I cannot figure why a woman would say I like "X"; when much depends on ones skills.
I think its more of a control thing. By comparing him to her ex, she makes him feel cruddy about himself, which makes her feel better about herself.
I had a previous gf who did that to me. Back my sophmore year I used to be 4.5 and she was like oh my bf was 9 and amazing it felt soo good. And it made me feel like **** and she seemed to feel better about herself for some reason. (And she was one controlling and manipulative girl)
For Boys Only- A Matter of Size (Regarding your penis)
No she won't particularly notice your size but she will notice your skill. And it sounds like the stupid sort of thing a teenage girl would say.
she was probably kidding you, and wouldn't know the difference.
I don't understand why she would tell you that either, unless it was as Ducy explained.
Are you sure thats not what she's doing?
Just drop her like red hot iron if she has that attitude, if she loved it so much with her so called big ex she can go back to him !
[QUOTE=Newtolove;215173]Just drop her like red hot iron if she has that attitude, if she loved it so much with her so called big ex she can go back to him ![/QUOTE]
Exactly what I was thinking!
To her defense, they may have been friends before they were lovers and she may have shared this info on that basis. I made the mistake of praising my bfs bed skills once before, never even thinking the person I shared the info with would become a lover.
To the OP, size isn't what matters, what matters is how you use it. The best lover I had was about 4.5 inches and let me tell you...I've been with much larger men who thought their size was all that mattered. It doesn't. The way it's used is much more important.