When I try to have sex with my boyfriend, he always bends and we have to work a while to get it in. He's never had sex with anyone else, I have. I've never had the problem before. I'd think that the problem would be that hes not hard but he is, completely or mostly and with both of those with other guys, it seems to be fine. Is there anything I can do to help it? Or does anyone know why it is doing that?