What do you guy think about your partner having more sexual experience than yourself? I'm having some issues with it recently since the girl I'm with was not only the girl who took my virginity, but she was also my first kiss! Meanwhile she has not only slept with one other guy, but also had a lesbian experience when she was much younger. I wouldn't classify what she did "sex" with a girl since she went down on her, but the other girl didnt do anything for her, also she regrets it terribly, she knows she's not a lesbian or bisexual now.
The truth is that I don't think it should bother me, but it just gives me a big inferiority complex about thing, I mean she's kissed the same number of girls as I have lol. It isn't a huge issue between us, she really reassures me that I'm the best she's had and all that stuff, but I would like to know if anyone else has the same trouble.
Thanks everybody for your advice. It's not a big issue at all, I just wanted to see what other people thought.
Other people may have had her in the past but YOU have her now.... use her experience to increase yours, I had only been with 2 other people before my current boy whilst he has been with many and while it uspets me when he makes comments about what other girls do it is just insecurity on my part and I have tried to learn from him....
She chose you, remember that and dont stress
My guy was the first person I slept with, the first person I kissed, the first person I gave a blowjob to, the first person for like everything. I was definately *not* his first for everything or anything for that matter. But, I didn't care.
I didn't care about a lot of things dealing with him and his present or past. That's not why I liked/like him. That's not why I chose to have him be my first. I chose him because I knew that's who I wanted to lose it to. I couldn't imagine anyone else.
All in all, just don't think about it. If it's not an issue between you, don't make it one. The past is the past.
Hi Konman,
People always worry about this. Needlessly. It doesn't really matter how many people someone may have been with before you. They've never been with you before... that's a virgin experience for them. Everyone is different. So anytime you are with someone new, you have to learn how to please that person. Your girlfriend simply has experience with other people, not YOU.
Learn together how to please each other and don't worry about the past.
Take care.