We were talking about possible scenarios, and she asked me what I thought would be the "hottest" thing. Well I told her my honest fantasy. It involved me throwing her on the bed, stripping her down, then me getting up to undress, she gets on her knees and proceeds to give me head. During the even I would grab the back of her head and start pushing myself deeper and deeper until I was all the way in. Then after a few moments of that id bend her over the bed and dominate her.
Well she was incredibly turned on by the thought and asked me to do it. I was a little hesitant and asked her about her gag reflex. She has a sensitive one and will gag with less than half my shaft. Now its pretty obvious she's going to gag if I do this and she says that's fine I don't care it'll be hot cuz you'll be dominating me.
Would this be safe to do? I mean I don't want to hurt her and I know being very rough during oral can cause damage. But I don't want to be rough. I have done this before, but the girl from that even could take 5 of my 6 inches which wasn't too bad. My curent girl, and the one whose begging me for this can handle maybe 2.5 inches. Any advice? I mean could I do this without risking harm if I go slow? I know if she were to lay on her back with her head off the bed it could help. But she wants me to push her down onto her knees and do this.
I know that there are plenty of threads on the gag reflex and deepthroat Ducy.Look in the forum index and see what you can find that may help.Your gf is brave to want to do this because i wouldn't even consider it.I also have a very sensitive gag reflex and had a bad experience once when being forced to give deepthroat.But maybe if i had a bf as caring as you i might try if he agreed to be gentle with me.
Lol not my gf just for clarification. Simply good friends. Never been that relationship spark. But I read through the gag reflex topics. Its allways to go at her pace and relax but she wants me to "force" her. I guess I just gotta try it. We already decided her safe action would be to scratch my legs. Hopefully nothing really goes wrong. :/
Well, I haven't done what you describe. I only take him down at my own pace. And it's funny you should mention this, since recently I had an interesting conversation about what "deep throat" means, see: http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/member-polls/20322-deep-throat-6.html. Conclusion was that if a girl can take it all down (at her own pace!), she should be applauded. Cause it appears to be a rare ability...
The safe gesture is a good thing! And maybe you should think about your penis shape when choosing a position. So that the shape of yours matches the natural curve of her mouth/throat. I figure that if your friend can take 2,5 inch down at her own pace, you would be dominating her quite enough if you'd make her take those 2,5 at your pace... I wouldn't "really" force it on her. There was recently a thread in which Brandye described what damage could be caused by rough oral: http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/sexual-health-women/29715-bruised-throat...[quote]He could also have abraded the top of your esophagus or, even, damaged the larynx or partially torn a tonsil[/quote]
Come on, Ducy, you're a smart guy. Please read this thread after the sun comes up and your brain is fresh. You've asked the question and have provided the answer.
> she wants me to "force" her.
Much of what we do during sex play is an illusion. It looks like something it isn't.
"Force"? How can she use a safe word if necessary?
This forcible action gives me the creeps. Think "washboarding", the torture method used by the army over seas. If the two of you insist on this stupid maneuver, then work your way up to it with practice and more practice beforehand. Then, if and only when she is ready, proceed slowly yet with the illusion of being forceful and commanding. Better yet, do something else altogether that is less invasive and dangerous.
I have to agree with the doc; keep it an illusion. And keep it safe! (safe word is impossible, but I guess the supposed safe gesture will do). Maybe both you and your friend should also keep in mind that fantasies are at times more "hot" than they are in reality when performed... Since I have been choked with real force once, yes, I agree with the creeps. But on the other hand; we all have our fetishes. And since some enjoy submission and discomfort, I wouldn't necessarily call it "stupid"; just needs proper precautions and mindset...
> And keep it safe! (safe word is impossible, but I guess the supposed safe gesture will do).
One gesture would be to poke you in the ribs with a finger of each hand.
Another would be to hold onto your testicles and squeeze hard if things get out of hand.