ok, so the other day i went over to my boyfriends house. His parents had us help set up their fooseball table. that took like 45 minutes. So after that, we went to go watch a movie. Which we always do. it was about 9, and his mom walked downstairs. me and my bf weresemi laying(like slouched really far down) on the couch in this like sideways hug, except we weresemi lying down. and his mom got all mad and was like ok get off the couch and go finish putting the legs on the fooseball table. she said it was too intimate. (even though it wasnt) and shes all like now when u guys hang out you have to hang out with other people. (if i forgot to mention, she doesnt like me AT ALL, and is pretty clear about that.) or we cant hang out at all. and we arent allowed to watch movies anymore. so i was like ugh.. why is she freaking out? is she just overprotective?
Wed, 05/16/2007 - 02:14
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Parents.. ugh.
How old are you both?
mother-son-girlfriend...especially if the son is the oldest...girlfriend EVIL...you'll understand when you have children...LOL
14. but we were just watching a movie. we werent even doing anything. besides talking to eachother. but i dont see how that would make her go wacko.
thanks lol. hes the youngest lol. his moms like 54. shes OLD. not to be mean or anything..
Maybe something else is bothering her & you just don't know it. Give it a few days, hang out at your parents or something. Let it cool off.
[QUOTE=nina08;178710]thanks lol. hes the youngest lol. his moms like 54. shes OLD. not to be mean or anything..[/QUOTE]
Ohhhhhhhhh that figures!! he's the baby of the family!!
2 of my cousins had babies before they were even 18. I understand you, and your boyfriends mother. The reason I understand you is because I am but a kid my self, and we feel it's not fair when we know we are the exception. The reason I understand your boyfriends mother is because I see what happens to my cousins. They both had to drop out of college to prepare for the baby. Now they are 24-27 and are at barely above min wage jobs and have a hard time to get by.
If you do get more intimate if you decide that's what you want, make sure you educate and prepare your self so that this does not happen.
I know it probably seems sick I or she thought straight to that, but it's what normally happens in a relationship if it goes far enough. Just be careful please.
At 14 your/his parents are going to seem like fogeys (my age is showing...lol), but in the long run they will be right. She is guarding her young and even though it seems like she doesn't like you she is guarding you. Sounds like she does not want the "inatmacy" too got to the point that she is a grandmother to a baby born to a teen. Just respect her wishes and abide by her rules and maybe she will begin to loosen up some and give you a little more freedom.
thanks. that helps a lot.