Hi, im new to this site, it looks great. My girlfriend and i are planning to have sex. It will be the first time for both of us and, well, both our parents also know our plans. So everytime we either stay over the night or just spend a lot of time together they are always watching really closly. Does anyone have any suggestions on how we could get some time alone? I have a car, but i think its a bit cheap to take her to some hotel and even worse to do it in the back of the car for the first time. Please help 
Sun, 05/09/2004 - 08:28
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I just begged my mom to go on vacation this summer. And she will.
Im sure she is well aware i want to have sex with my g/f
Hey, Don't "blame" us!
Seriously, congratulations... and thanks for returning and letting us know how things worked out.
well, we did it... twice in the two days we had. mmm... It was definatly an experience.. haha, yes outdoors, in the bush (a nice plain... long grass and a blanket) Thanks so much for the help, without this board i probably wouldnt have done it. Thanks again.
The woods are lovely, dark and deep.
But I have promises to keep.
And miles to go before I sleep.
And miles to go before I sleep.
Damn, I haven't forgotten my Robert Frost. LOL Seriously... I suggested the woods for a lot of reasons, including the fact that it can be very intimate... you don't need your friends helping you orchestrate it... and, best of all, it'll be totally private.
I don't think you want high odds of getting walked in on your first time.
Bring a blanket big enough to roll up in... the freedom of being outdoors can be very erotic.
well I never thought I would be able to do it with any of the girls I dated. But I managed somehow. Outdoors is a good suggestion. Possibly, at a friend's house. I didn't lose my virginity to my girlfriend, and my parents knew I was screwing around. But all the times I did have sex, I was higher than a plane. So yeah, I have had sex wtih 3 people while coherent (I beleive that is how it is spelled). But most of the other times I went to a friend's house to do it. Yeah. Don't do drugs! and be sure to use protection.
Or you coul actually wait until you're 18, then rent a hotel room, and having a romantic evening, soemthing that would make it unforgatble and a better experience. Nothing wrong with waiting a bit. It would be worth it.
Curious.. whats stopping you from.. waking up at like 3am..? eh? your parents surely arent gona be awake.. and besides no probable worry of.. well moaning because you are both newbies.. and well.. LOL you have to keep quiet :P
jamie
Unfortunatly it isnt that simple, when she sleeps over, my parents will NEVER leave the house. And vice versa...
parents are good, but annoying... ah well, we will find a way im sure. Thanks for your help
Yea, I believe you have to be 18 to get a motel/hotel room.
It wasnt a matter of me actually telling my parents we plan on having sex, they inadvertantly stumbled across a MSN conversation that i didnt know was stored on the computer. Im 17 so the motel room would be hard to get im guessing? Outdoors is a great idea, we have already done a number of things in the great outdoors. There is also a nice forrest plantation at the end of our street... soo... yes, thanks for all your help
I lost mine in a hotel...or rather "inn & suites" lol.
It was just easier that way. I certainly couldn't bring him home and he certainly couldn't bring me home. So we just met down the road after work. lol.
yeah lexxi i was wondering the same thing to.
i mean its different if you tell you mom so you can get on BC or something but to be like "we plan on having sex" of course your parents won't leave you alone.
i agree w/ thetease.
motels aren't "cheap", unless its a cheap motel lol.
i lost mine in a motel.
i was visiting my b/f from out of state so thats why, but i think its fun getting a hotel room. its like you have your own place for a day or so. you can be as messy and sleep in and do whatever and no one will bother you. take a radio and some candles or incense. play up the room so its more romantic.
maybe just plan a little weekend getaway or something.
i don't know how old you are, that could make a difference if you could get a room or not.
i mean you guys already spend the night at the others houses so getting a night alone in a hotel shouldn't be that hard. i would definetly say no to the car lol. thats cheap.
i don't find a hotel or a motel cheap.
it's a way lots of young people lose their virginity because well, it's just easier that way and no one will have to know about it.
as long as you're both willing to do it and both in the mood and both set the mood, there's nothing cheap about it.
Outdoors! Mother Nature usually provides some wonderfully romantic spots... go on a picnic... bring a blanket, etc.
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The answer is simple, just wait until your parents go out for the night and then you can have all the privacy you want.
That's what I did when I used to live with my parents in my teenage years (I'm 27 now, independent person).
Don't your parents ever go away? On vacation, or out for the night? Wait till then..or go with WallyLlama and do it outside. Fun stuff.
Just a question, why do both of your parents know about your plans to have sex?