I sex for the first time 5 days ago and again 2 days ago with my boyfriend. We're both pretty sure that none of the condoms broke, but I'm paranoid that while he was changing condoms or something that he wiped cum onto a new one. Is it probably just nothing and I'm just paranoid since it's my first time or should I go get the morning after pill just to be safe?
Thu, 06/11/2009 - 13:50
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paranoid about first time
You're not ready for sex.
When the desire overcomes the fear...THEN you're ready for sex.
Please read this recent thread. Pay particular attention to my reply and Brandye's that follows.
lost my virginity, used condoms, missed my period...help?
Go purchase two home pregnancy tests of different brands and follow the instructions to the letter. Take the second test at least 12 hrs. later.
Did the condoms have a spermicidal lubricant in them? If so, you should be fine. If not, there is a possibility, but it is a very small one. I wouldn't worry too much about it.
no they were just lubricated condoms.
I still wouldn't worry too much about it. When is your next period supposed to start?
in 2 weeks. That's mostly why I'm freaking out.
You should be fine. Keep in mind, with some women, your first period after losing your virginity may come a few days early or a few days late. But if you want to be sure, there are always pregnancy tests. I don't know any of the health risks involved with the morning after pill, so you should probably talk to one of the doctors on here about that, but that is also an option... Like I said though, you should be fine.
ok. thank you so much.
No problem, that's what these forums are here for.