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Painful sex for her (size problem please help)

This is not a new problem to me but only recently did I start having sex on a regular basis. Before I had only had sex maybe 5 times and all those times sucked. I just got a new gf and we just started having sex and it really hurts her because i'm larger than normal. I was wondering if anyone else had this same problem or knows of any techniques we could use to solve this problem. Thanks.

It is rare for a woman to suffer from too large a penis. The vagina, after all, is designed to allow a baby out and in comparison, no penis very large. The issue has more to do with her relaxation than your size. Those muscles in a younger woman are not accustomed to having anything go in. Dancing Doc has good points but she will have to do it, not you.

The vaginal opening in women new to intercourse is normally rather small. Over time it will stretch; however, why wait--as long?

She can stretch the opening herself by using her fingers once or twice a day to do this exercise. She should draw a tub of warm water and sit in it. The water will soften the skin. As she does this she should insert or hook a finger just inside and gently tug the opening in one direction and hold the tension for a few moments. This done, she should then switch to another quadrant and do likewise, repeating until all four directions have been pulled upon.

If she does this once or twice daily eventually she will be able to insert two fingers, either of one hand or one finger from each hand. Use the fingers in opposition, pulling in two directions at once, and then work around the circumference. Each exercies is short. She need only devote maybe fifteen-twenty minutes a session.

It is important not to do this while taking a bath. ABSOLUTELY no soap must be permitted to enter the vagina, so while this can be done while taking a bath, make sure the bath water is clean.

This should help the situation, although some men are just large and for a situation like this I do not have an answer. Have her give this method a try and see what happens in a few weeks.

She should expect that this will take at least a couple of weeks to accomplish depending upon how often she does this and just conditions in general.

[QUOTE=Brandye]It is rare for a woman to suffer from too large a penis. The vagina, after all, is designed to allow a baby out and in comparison, no penis very large. The issue has more to do with her relaxation than your size. Those muscles in a younger woman are not accustomed to having anything go in. Dancing Doc has good points but she will have to do it, not you.[/QUOTE]
I disagree...I recently had an experience where my lover was HUGE and too big for me. I was very relaxed (and very horny) and I still tore a bit. I have to heal up a bit and we will try again.:D

Notice my use of "rare." Statistics caught up with you. Disagree or not, this is a rare occurrence. If you actually tore, I hope you saw a doctor. The potential for infection is large in that part of you and improperly healed, you could have problems for a long while.

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