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pain from squirting?

I recently was fisted for the first time and squirted for the first time too. Ever since, I have had a lot of pain on 1 side of my vagina. It burns really bad when I urinate. I don't know what to do. Do you feel that I should go to the doctor or maybe use a washcloth with peroxide and see if it gets better? Please help. thanks so much.

Pain from squirting? I'd guess pain from fisting or an infection. How long ago was this?

a few days ago

There should never be pain from squirting. Regarding the fisting: have you tried multiple times and gradually worked up to it; or did you try once and force it? Fisting is a tad dangerous if not built up to, well lubed, and if you aren't relaxed.

BTW: Definitely go to a doctor. You could have a urinary tract infection, an injury, or both (or something else).

A lot of pain after a few days = Doctor visit.

NO PEROXIDE. See your doctor. It is more likely that you are abraded from fisting than anything to do with squirting.

I believe there was a thread a couple years ago discussing that exact question maupassant.

[QUOTE=funinthesun;242585]I believe there was a thread a couple years ago discussing that exact question maupassant.[/QUOTE]

Well, whilst we all on here acknowledge that sex goes a bit beyond the missionary position, nevertheless we should all accept there are dangers. Apart from my fears re fisting, anal sex leaves me a bit worried. Brandye did mention that the anal wall is not really designed for sex and rupturing + infections could result.
Enjoy sex, but just be a bit careful.:cool::rolleyes:

I started to ask why no peroxide but I think I answered my own question. We don't WANT that area completely sterile of bacteria, because we're killing the healthy ones too, right?

You got it and, if you are already a bit raw, the peroxide will burn terribly.

[QUOTE=Brandye;242563]You got it and, if you are already a bit raw, the peroxide will burn terribly.[/QUOTE]

Bearing in mind this thread, is fisting really a sensible thing to do? I cannot help but think that this a male dominance thing. Not my scene at all ever with a lady, but I would welcome other views.

[QUOTE=maupassant;242579]Bearing in mind this thread, is fisting really a sensible thing to do? I cannot help but think that this a male dominance thing. Not my scene at all ever with a lady, but I would welcome other views.[/QUOTE]

well, it all depends, if you work up to it i don't think much dammage can be done by it, since a baby's head is much larger than the average, or any mans fist. and as for how it is male domminence i'm not really sure if that what it denotes in the sexual balance of a relationship

It doesn't strike me as being about dominance. But then I've never tried it either. However, I do think that it's kind of a goal to reach, if you take my meaning. Because of the fact that you must work up to it, etc, it becomes a 'ooooh cool you can do THAT' kind of thing, I would guess. Kind of like getting her to squirt. Like it's a cool thing that not everyone can seem to accomplish, so it becomes like a badge. If that makes sense?

*sigh*

Just because you can or could doesn't mean you MUST do anything.
Fisting - eh *shrug* is frankly more trouble than it is worth. And anal is a huge pain in the ass - literally and isn't a thrill anyway - no P-Spot in women... but, Female Ejaculation is TERRIFIC!

Therefore if you really need some sort of sexual goal - work on the Ejaculating!!

and all women can if they permit themselves to do so.