Ok basically i've been with this girl for about 4 months and a couple of months ago we tried to have sex. In the past i've had problems with condoms, so when we tried it, i couldnt get it to stand up. I guess this is because the problems with them i've had before has completely freaked me out about them, like pregnancy scares. So after we tried it, i was fine with giving it time or whatever but since then obviously we haven't had sex (which i'm ok with) but everytime i'm with her for any amount of time over a day or so i get a real bad pain coming from my balls, which only goes away if i lie down for ages, like 12 hours minimum, and even then it doesnt always go away. I don't know whether the pain is due to being turned on for a long period of time or what, but i really need some help with this one as when i get the pain, i literally can't stand up for more than a couple of minutes without the pain being insufferable. Does anyone know what the hell's wrong with me??
Fri, 04/13/2007 - 19:26
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Pain from not having sex
i hate to be repetitive but its called "blue balls" like sera and brandye have said. just masturbate and the pain should go away
I am not a man but it sounds like "blue-balls". Try masturbating and see if the pain goes away.
The so-called "blue-balls" condition is very real. The pain is actually caused by the excess semen that is built up while aroused. In a sense, this is from being excited too long without release. Relief is only an ejaculation away.
Perhaps she is willing to help.
Agreed, just because you can't manage sex doesn't mean you can't help eachother "release" in other way....oral, hand jobs, mutual masturbation.
well all 4 are right its blue balls. lol
just masturbate like everyone said