Well recently me and my gf have had sex and I cannot give her more than one orgasm due to after about 5-10 minutes of penetration rather it be finger or my penis, it starts to hurt her really bad. She says its a sore pain, any suggestions? We are planning on taking her to the gyno next week or two when health insurance kicks back in that is if i can get her there, but until then any ideas?
Mon, 06/16/2008 - 11:51
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Pain inside her
She could just be drying up. I know a girl that I can only give 1 orgasm and after that I have about 10 minutes...20 if Im lucky to cum or it starts hurting her.
Well I thought that too but she claims she still feels lubed up inside.
Well it was the same here. She though she was still lubed, but it was pretty thick, like rather than a watery like lubricant, it was like a sludgy not so slippery lube, so although she felt like ti she wasnt.
Well I can try more lube and see if that does anything. Well putting on lube at all, because she's always been the type that is naturally really moist
Add additional lube after the first orgasm. Yes, women feel moisture but until ready again may feel not as moist as the first try.
Also, remain well hydrated...drink plenty of water.
We tried again last night, and she says she felt moist the whole time, but after her first, she started to get really tender and hurt.
[quote=Yariome;217299]We tried again last night, and she says she felt moist the whole time, but after her first, she started to get really tender and hurt.[/quote]
Did you try to apply lube the second go around? Also, allowing sufficient recovery time is key...
Yeah we added lube but didn't wait much because she asked me to keep going.
[quote=Yariome;217310]Yeah we added lube but didn't wait much because she asked me to keep going.[/quote] Try stopping, adding the lube and holding her, rubbing, & getting her "ready" to go again...:) Just begin slow.
..... or just wait until she sees the gyn and makes certain everything is as it should be.
Yeah we have an appointment for it tomorrow to find out.
And they gyn is saying nothing is wrong no tear or anything.
Could just be stresses of daily life or hormones making her dried out. Id suggest what sera said since the gyn checked out!
I would pay attention to where your penis is inside of her. If you are hitting her cervix or pounding into her, that can really be uncomfortable. Try moving slowly and going in at a different angle. It could be the angle and speed which is making her uncomfortable.
May be she has low libido and as the result lack of lubricant. Try using natural supplements and creams. When I had problems with lubricant Sentia pills helped me.