Pain and discomfort to whom?

If you are talking about the woman experiencing pain during intercourse then, yes, there are products known as personal lubricants that can be used along with the woman's own mucus.

Technique is what you are lacking, not necessarily a commercial product. Most times the woman produces sufficient lubrication naturally; although this is subject to change througout the month.

The best things to do to prevent discomfort are:
* to spread the lub around the entrance to the vagina
* spread the lube around the Glans of your penis and shaft/condom

If she is new to intercourse and you are attempting first penetration then you have to contend with other factors such as a naturally small orifice, the hymen if it is intact, for example. I often describe an exercise a girl/woman can do to help make the entrance to the vagina more plyable. Please do an advanced search using my name and the key word: bathtub or quadrant.

If this does not answer your concerns, please be more clear.

Didnt people answer this in the other thread about winning the bet?
I mean there isn't a sure fire way for it to not be painful if you are having 2 hrs of penetration. Lube is the only thing.

[QUOTE]I mean there isn't a sure fire way for it to not be painful if you are having 2 hrs of penetration. Lube is the only thing.[/QUOTE]

unless the woman produces enough natural lubrication.

though it is different in every case.. me n my gf can happily go 2 hours without pain what so ever.. different for everyone.. though lubricant is the main factor

[QUOTE=Vper;154781]unless the woman produces enough natural lubrication.

though it is different in every case.. me n my gf can happily go 2 hours without pain what so ever.. different for everyone.. though lubricant is the main factor[/QUOTE]

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Who would want to go 2 hrs of thrusting??
that would get painful and/or boring lol.
its ok if theres breaks inbetween...for more foreplay and making out...

[QUOTE=demonbuttercup;154792]=\
Who would want to go 2 hrs of thrusting??
that would get painful and/or boring lol.
its ok if theres breaks inbetween...for more foreplay and making out...[/QUOTE]

well when my gf can have 3 orgasms before my 1 we both seem to think its quite amazing and the fact that u dont really look at the clock until after u finish so u dont notice how long it is going for..

sometimes it seeks to amaze me how people complain how long.. do they watch the clock until its over? doesn't sound romantic to me... me n my gf have no trouble goin for however long because it is a deep and meaningful romantic time and well time does not matter as long as we are together.

Yea I am not too much of a romantic... plus I dont usually have multiple orgasms... guess your g/f is lucky
Once I have one... I dont want anymore stimulation down there... its uncomfortable.
I guess I can be thankful that I at least am able to orgasm fairly easily.
Some women dont even get that far.

Lol my question is how the hell are you going 2 hrs of penetration and her having 3 orgasms before your 1? That seems pretty amazing ;) Demon, I'm sort of the same way, I'm a guy tho so it's probably more common. I could be masturbating to some sexy picture or video, climax, and then take another look at it and it really doesn't have the same effect.

[QUOTE]I could be masturbating to some sexy picture or video, climax, and then take another look at it and it really doesn't have the same effect.[/QUOTE]

well i get very turned on by my girl each and every time... i have sort of learnt to control it a bit. even the first time for not goin for a few days is like 30 mins 0 1 hour. my gf will always orgasm during out intercoarse after about 15-20 mins or so.

They key to making a girl orgasm is by getting her very wet and hitting the right spots.... if a girl is fairly dry she will not orgasm or rarely orgasm according to my gf. The guy has to be able to find something that really turns a girl on and do that whilst hitting other spots to be 1 big enjoyment of multiple spots.

There is a little technique i learnt during intercoarse to speed things up a tad. here goes...

Instead of your basic in/out penetration try incorporate both of your bodies in doing this.

Example: upon entering the vagina lift the penis a bit so it rubs the top wall on the way in. (close to g-spot) once in move down slightly then enter from the bottom wall.. in one smooth motion that is.. it takes a bit of practice but apparently it is really good for girls during intercoarse.

when i masturbate to material i dont last too long as the imagination is flowing on 'what you could be doing' and thus is really really turned on and is easy to climax... that and there is quite a lot happening in your standard pornography.

during sex your mind isn't thinking of what u could be doing because u are actually doing it...

The key to lasting is relaxing and just enjoying it... the more u enjoy it the more your partner will enjoy it, the more you will relax and the less chance of performance anxiety. (not the problem jus in otherwords shortening the time)