I had sex for the first time today.. I must say this guy did have a pretty big girth and i was a bit concerned about it going in, but evetually it did (and there was blood on the sheets after...good sign? Hymens broken now?) but oh my gosh it hurt so much, particularly when I was on top, we ended up stoping after i orgasmed because it was so bad i couldn't keep going on for what felt like it would be forever (hours on end?!?)
Tell me, does this pain decrease the more I have sex? Please tell me this was just first time pain.
Fri, 05/25/2007 - 19:03
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Pain...
Generally, the pain decreases considerably and many of us never had any real pain at all. I am amazed that you reached orgasm. That is not common for first time experiences.
There is a difference between the pain caused by the first entry and pain caused by friction. Especially dealing with a larger man, add some lubrication next time. I recommend that you use a vaginal jelly. It adds spermicidal protection, lubricates and has a measured applicator to get it in far enough to continue the lubrication through the act.
next time get a good hour of making out and foreplay to make it wider . that what i have to do with my girl because im a little bit wider than most. :D