Okay so I hooked up with a long time friend of mine, and we tried to have sex, twice, and both times we had to stop because it was too overwhelming for her. I asked her why, (perhaps it was overwhelming in a too fast sorta sense) but she said it was like overwhelming like feeling wise. The feeling of penetration and grind our hips, just was too much. (sorry that I cant be more descript, but she could barely find a way to describe it.)
Anyways has anyone else had this problem before? And how do you eliminate this overwhelming feeling. Because I really dont want to have sex with her, and it not be so overwhelming that she cant enjoy it.
Never heard of that.
Too much what?
Pain? Pleasure? Effort? lol
Like just too sensitive. I mean it did hurt a lil when I first went in, but after about 10 seconds it went away, and then it was just like way to intense. Like she came in like a minute and then like she was just way too sensitive (Why we stopped first time) Then after it was still way too intense like even after a 20 minute break/more foreplay.
She committed two fundamental errors.
1. she was not breathing calmly and deeply.
2. she was not relaxing through the feelings and just letting them roll
In fact, she was "running scared" due to inexperience or some mental reservations she has in her head or both.
Let us review the Program:
1. massage
2. necking/erotic massage
3. body worship
4. manual
5. cunnilingus
6. cunnilingus with manual
7. G-Spot
8. posterior fornix
9. repeat the last two alternating for as long as he can hold out
pause if required by returning to body worship
10. his climax and then cuddling
11. rest
12. repeat entire program
Now then, Ducy - at which point did she call a halt and did you skip any steps?
dam ducy quit turning all the girls gay!
You're not aloud in my state!
haha jk bro, maybe she was too sensitive or maybe she just was trying to get out of it.
Not trying to hurt your ego or anything, but maybe she didn't really want to go all the way.
Are you sure that she was 'overwhelmed', or do you think that maybe she was using it as an excuse to get out of doing the deed?
Turns out Ducy turned her gay :)
Luv Ya Ducy!
WEll I guess she could be trying to get out of it, but I mean it was her taking the lead (tbh I was a bit nervous).
Thanks so much demon...you know, you really make me feels special lol :D
*drumming fingers on chair arm still awaiting Ducy's answers to my questions*
Oh right, sorry EEK, ummmmm I would have to say sometime around the 7...although she wasnt really into me going down on her, so basically your list would look like this for us (at the time)
1. Making out
2. Petting, stroking teasing,
3. Bumpin and grinding
4. g-spot (stop)
5. try it all again
6. stop again
7. go home
8. take a very very very cold shower
lol
Sorry, Ducy but you weren't getting to skin-on-skin fast enough. This is why you begin with the non-threatening massage and it all flows from there. Like a tomcat's rumbling purr you just exude testoserone and smoothly and sleekly work your charm.