this is similar to a post i sent b4, but im kinda leading on and wondering if my clit is more sensitive than normal.
my last post explained how i seemed to orgasm very quickly, although this does seem to be related to too much clitoral stimulation, but still my clit hurts after this anyway.
does any1 else have this problem? is the fact that i cum quickly something to do with an over sensitive clit? this is hard to explain 
but does this sound familiar to any1? maybe if someone else has a similar problem i will be able to explain better. thx.
Wed, 06/23/2004 - 20:37
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oversensitive clit?
Many will almost envy you! But it can be a real problem. You do not specify whether the problem arises during masturbation or with someone else doing the stimulating.
Most of us cannot tolerate direct stimulation of the clitoris as we become aroused. In the Golden posts you will find one I wrote long ago on stages of female sexual arousal. The clitoris actually retracts as we approach orgasm.
The stimulation that most of us really want is movement of the clitoral hood - the flap of skin under which the clitoris lives most of the time. Most female masturbating is done with the fingers in position to move the hood, either sideways or up and down, across the clitoris. Use of a vibrator causes vibrations throughout the area and no one applies the vibrator directly against the bare clitoris.
Young men masturbate by rubbing penis directly. When they discover the clitoris, they tend to treat it the same way. Roughly all the nerve endings in the penis are included in the very small package of the clitoris. We just cannot tolerate the same level of direct stimulation without pain - often to the extent of stopping and orgasm rather than leading toward it.
i have a similar problem, but instead of coming too quickly i tend to flinch when he touches me. is this normal? and is it due to an oversensitive clit or am i just nervous or something?
The same thing happen's to my wife after she orgasm's. If I touch her clit then she will flinch ever time cause it's so sensitive. So I just try not to then.
thats normal once a girl has come because we become more sensitive, but the thing with me is i get it before i've come so trying not to touch it isn't really the answer im looking for...
well ma gf doesn gt sore or anytin but does seem to be extremely tickly in the clit area