I have to admit I have a really bad gag reflex. He really wants me to perform oral on him and I really want to do it, however just having the head of his penis in my mouth makes me want to be sick, not because of taste or anything like that. I Was wondering if there were any techniques that could help me overcome this gag sensation. When we last were together he cum all over my face..... :p (Not during oral just wanking) But a bit of cum went into my mouth. Because of such a huge feeling of wanting to vomit, (I nearly did vomit), I had to run to the bathroom and wash my mouth out quickly. I feel this ruined the moment, that was supposed to be romantic and loving. Its not because of taste or smell, i just think i have an over sensative gag reflex and any advice on how to possibly perform oral on my partner without this happening would be really helpful and greatfully recieved.
Look forward to your replies.
Thanks. Ocean-x
UPDATE: I've done it, I gave him oral sex and did not gag!! He even cummed in my mouth and i was fine!! I'm So Happy!!!
> He really wants me to perform oral on him and I really want to do it, however just having the head of his penis in my mouth makes me want to be sick
How far into your mouth is his penis going? You do not have to have it go back all the way to impart a tremendous amount of pleasure. If it goes back and touches the Uvula then of course you and others will probably gag. The two of you can have great pleasure with the Glans and upper shaft slipping between your lips and not farther back than the tongue can comfortably contribute to the action. In addition, relax your mouth and jaw. Wrap your lips around your teeth so as not to scrape him and then open just wide enough for him to slip in between. Your lips should be kept moist and between what they and your tongue do, it should be enough to take him to an exalted state of joy.
> I Was wondering if there were any techniques that could help me overcome this gag sensation.
In addition to not letting the penis go too far in, practice on your own with a hotdog, carrot stick, or small cuccumber or English cuccumber.
> But a bit of cum went into my mouth. Because of such a huge feeling of wanting to vomit...I had to run to the bathroom and wash my mouth out quickly. Its not because of taste or smell, i just think i have an over sensative gag reflex
I'm wondering if this is more psychological than physical. I mean, you can have a mouthful of water or soda and not have a problem, why would a tablespoonful or less of semen cause you to gag? This is why I suggest conditioning yourself using one of the food items.
One way to prevent semen from flying back to the rear of your mouth is to raise the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth just prior to his ejaculation. The semen will squirt against the bottom surface of the tongue and go no farther. You can then decide whether to swallow or spit it out into a tissue. If swallowing it whole becomes difficult, and you want to do this, then just take a sip of water, also, inaddition.
I hope this is of help. Got questions?
A lot of this is in your head too. If you keep psyching yourself up and get scared about possibly vomiting, you will feel more like you are going to. I think a gag reflex can be made a lot worse by nerves. Think about when you are at the doctor getting that awful throat swab...if you didn't work yourself up so much right before it's about to happen, it might not be as bad.
Cant you just give him a hand job but use a little tongue - just licking him, but not actually putting his penis in your mouth? Work your way slowly up to taking him into your mouth and practice some breathing techniques to calm yourself down if you get nervous about gagging.
Updated......
Glad this worked out this last time. Keep up the practice.