For some reason I cant feel my partner. Ever. I mean he's fingered and given oral and even slept with me but the problem is I cant feel it. I dont have any erotic piercing or anything. HE turns me on so thats no problem. He tells me that I;m not lose so I dont know what the problem is.
He's my second sexual partner.
Thu, 01/03/2008 - 11:32
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Out of curosity
Do a search for kegel exercises and work on them. During intercourse have his slow down and you tighten up against him.
The sensation is all external - there are no nerve endings in the vagina. Therefore, the sensations we receive are all from stretching muscles of putting pressure on other parts.
If you are successful masturbating, everything is about as it should be and it is a matter of finding the positions that put pressure on the right parts. Use what you have learned masturbating to guide him.
If you have not been masturbating, time to start. That is how we women begin to learn how to approach climax.