Mmaky, my name is Mandi, I am 18 years old, and I am having some issues :(
My boyfriend and I started having sex about a year and a half ago...problem is....it STILL hurts me.
I must say that it hasn't lasted for more than 10 minutes MAX, but thats because the pain (or better explained as horrible irritation) is so intense, that I can't take it anymore.
We've tried lubrication, however, it only seemed to make it worse :confused:
I'm not sure if my hymen is broken, I never bled, but...I'm just unsure...I feel pressure and pain when penetrates me fully, however, I didn't think that this would be so far up the vagina.
Each time I tell him : "Okay baby this time I will just take it and hope that it feels okay," However, it doesn't...it just irritates...almost like dry skin rubbing roughly against dry skin (even when lube is used).
I'd appreciate a few suggestions. I've heard of trying water based lube - so maybe I'll give that a try? Thanks!
-Miss Mandi-
You should be seeking medical help. You are not lubricating on your own. Perhaps some more foreplay and a heavier lube would help but you should get yourself checked out first.
You should be discussing this with your Gyn doctor. This is not normal.
i have the exact same problem!
and using lube seems to make it even more irritated-even a doctor recommended one like KY :(
what helps alot is if my boyfriend goes down on me first and wets me with his tongue...i never have problems when doing it this way ^^