What is a good stimulating lubricant for a "not so sensitive" clit

[lizzydd]

I have trouble having an orgasm and sometimes have to force myself....sad...
I also feel that sometime I "dry out" quickly... so I wanted to know what is a fast acting lubricant and or stimulating lubricant that I could try?

[dancingdoc2]

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> what is a fast acting lubricant and or stimulating lubricant that I could try?

Look over the various products at a local pharmacy, and/or in the drug department of your local supermarket. "Astroglide" is an excellent product. Choose a water-based product.

* In a pinch, you can always use saliva.
* If you like making things yourself, do this: add two or three drops of hair conditioner to a small amount of tepid water in a small glass and mix thoroughly. Do not use a lot of water. Use only a few drops of conditioner sufficient to make the water slippery by breaking the surface tension. This is a one-time only recipe. You have to make a batch before each use. The good thing is that it only takes a few seconds to prepare!

> what is a fast acting lubricant and or stimulating lubricant

All lubes are fast acting. Just use more if and when you begin to dry out.
You will also find that as sensitive as the clitoris is, even less pressure will be required. This often changes the feeling you get yet at the same time greatly intensifies the sensations.

Please read the articles under the "OF CONCERN TO GIRLS/WOMEN" section in the Index.

Here are two more articles: Female Slowness to Orgasm

The Four Hotspots

For women learning to masturbate is a much more conscious effort and requires concerted effort. If you are experiencing trouble climaxing regularly and consistently, please read this article:

For Women Only- Help! Why Can't He Make Me Orgasm?

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

[Brandye]

About a quarter of us never reach orgasm; another half require some stimulation in addition to penetration and thrusting to get there.

If you are still using condoms, add vaginal jelly, a full applicator, both to further protect against pregnancy and also to lubricate. If you are looking for simple lube, try any of the water based and use a similar applicator to get plenty inside. Each thrust brings some lube out with it and this will maintain a good level.

[EvilEvilKitten]

IN addition to lubricants, get yourself a clitoral stimulator which is a flat-headed-with-bumps-on-it vibe not meant for insertion. Use of the two together along with relaxing, calm deep breathing, and a pleasing fantasy running in your head should do the trick.

Being tense, worried, stressed, anxious or 'trying too hard to orgasm' will all stop an orgasm before it has even begun - RELAX and remember to BREATHE.