How to control really super vaginal wetness?

[childgoddess]

Hi There!!!

After having two kids already. I notice when i get wet and aroused by my finacee when having sex. My vaginal gets really really wet and it makes me feel like i'm lose on top or when's he on top because i can hardly feel his penis in me. I notice before i had my daughter ( five months ago) i felt like i was pretty average tight down there. My finacce is pretty big i find. Soo i know its not because of his penis size. Is there any way i can control my vaginal wetness when we are having sex. I find i'm contantly stopping in the middle of sex with him to wipe because being super wet down makes me not feel his penis as much and its just a plain turn off for me to have sex with him.

[Brandye]

Sorry, there is no solution assuming you do not have some infection. Some women produce secretions that soak them from belly button to knees during sex and there really is no way to control it.
If your respective body types allow it, try taking him into you and then closing your legs with his on the outside. This can work in male or female superior positions. This closes you up a bit and has the added benefit of ensuring that his penis is passing over your clitoris.

Being five months post partum, it is possible that this will slowly decrease.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Kegels, kegels, kegels! Lots of towels! And his paying attention to the three internal hotspots will go a long way to making sure that you will feel something during penetration.

There is a post detailing a woman's Hotspots (there are 4 of them) that you two should read together. Practicing comes next.

You might also look up The Program and Body Worship two other articles that also improve the sexual experience.

But as far as decreasing the wetness - nope! However, many women during and after menopause find they no longer do get wet at all - so perhaps you can look forward to that?