|
What you would or would not do during one decade of your life you may have a complete change of position during a subsequent period of your life.
If you want to do this now or later, go about it in the right way. Look for someone in the local personal ads and develop a friendship with the person, first, in order to see if you two are compatible. Work up to sex over time, as with any new partner. I believe it is important to get to know the other person somewhat before baring all. This is another form of self protection, if you follow my drift.
If and when you do decide to proceed, make certain you both go and get a medical check so there is proof to both that you are each free of STDs. Do this whether or not this is just a short fling or a more lasting relationship.
|