Good place for first time sex

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by Rich In Flavour

Perhaps you could go camping if you have a tent, spend the night in a forest. Maybe have a sleep-over at a different friend's house and when the others are downstairs watching a film or eating pizza, you and the girl can go upstairs.

I'm not sure whether you've watched too many movies or not enough. Certainly you've been exposed to too much juvenile bravado. Disappearing upstairs or anywhere else in someone else's home is just dumb and irresponsible. As soon as you are missing in action, your new action will likely be crashed and who wants somebody harassing you after crashing thru the bedroom (or other) door? Certainly not the girl who is now probably naked.

Or, do what has become a lost right of passage - wait until you are in University to have sex.

Have sex in what part of the university. There are a lot of doors and rooms--no bedrooms. Dorm? Maybe, if you and a roommate decide upon a signal not to disturb. This can be as easy as a DND sign on the door knob, a tie tied to the door, or some other less obvious way. The latter is best so you are not harassed by passersby who think it is funny to pound on the door and disturb what is going on inside.

[Rich In Flavour]

Irrisponsible? I'm not sure how going into a friend's bedroom with a girl is irrisponsible. You missed my point, you should let the others know that you are taking a girl upstairs, ask the person in advance if it's ok for you to take a girl into his bedroom.
No bedrooms in University? I'm going to guess you're from America. In England Universities have halls of residence, (Or apartment blocks) there are flats (Apartments) which have 4 / 5 / 6 bedrooms, a kitchen and a bathroom. And these bedrooms have locks on the doors, so no need to worry about people crashing in. Anyway, maybe a tie on the handle, just to keep people from knocking. And if people do purposely bang on your door, they are immature and you should punch them for being disrespectful.

I remember the first time I did something with a girl in a tent, it was at what you would call Summer Camp. I didn't have sex, but did get up to no good.

[tristannf]

Max, I hope you haven't taken advice from anyone here. I don't know why people get off the subject and try to tell teens what to do instead of answering the F'in question. It's like people don't remember what they were like as a teen. I'm 32 years old, but I still remember exactly what you're going through. You don't want sex for love or anything like that, you want to experience the first time of doing it. You want to be able to tell your friends that you're no longer a virgin. It sounds like you're going to be safe, so I don't see any reason not to do it. It's like driving a car for the first time. Whether you're 15 or 25, you still have to get behind the wheel and learn by doing it. You can mess up at the age of 25 just as easily as you can at 15.

As far as where to do it, if you haven't already, any private place will do. I doubt that you'll be doing it for very long. That's something that you will learn later in life. The woods is cool if that's ok with her. Just bring a blanket and be careful not to get arrested. lol. Someone mentioned a friends place which might be easier than your place. Maybe someone will have a party... If you do it at your place, I wouldn't do it while your mom is there. The bed will make noises that she may recognize... When I was 15, I had older friends who had their own place. If you have that, ask one if you can use their spot for a while.