My vagina is acting weird.

[asianchickensalad]

I was having sex with someone new on Halloween night. He ejaculated and had to pull out for a moment to change the condom. When he got back in, my vagina had tightened way back up and wasn't quite so wet anymore. It made sex quite uncomfortable from that point.

He wasn't out for a long period of time. Maybe 30 seconds? I didn't appreciate the lack of cooperation on my vagina's part. I was really enjoying myself up until that point.

I couldn't seem to get it back into the mood. It was really quite frustrating. Is there anything I can do about this?

[CLVR-HNDS_GUY]

i know from being a guy, if you walk away for a minute, the cock goes soft and you need to kiss or do things which aren't sexual which cause it
its normal i think for both genders to go soft with a guy and not wet for a female
i have it before with a female with had to fix up the bed or get something, its easy to fix with just more kissing and foreplay.
hopefully doc or EEK will know more about it, im interested in why it happens

[asianchickensalad]

We did try some things I really like, like nipple play and purring. I also can't seem to do top positions, either.

[Brandye]

When the penis is removed, it draws a lot of lubrication along with it. Even with a lubed condom, you need more. The friction, then, from inadequate lube caused the further tightening. When swapping condoms, more vaginal jelly is often needed.

[EvilEvilKitten]

The vagina does contract and all you need to do is add more lubricant.
Using condoms requires lubricant in all cases and if you interrupt the moment, for whatever reason, you will need to apply more. Just how it is.

No, your vagina is not acting wierd.

[lnt1103]

Similar thing happened with me and T the other night. After I had orgasmed a few times by hand and by oral, we went to penetrate and I mean I was TIGHT. Tighter than I've been in a long time. He was a little bigger than typical too, and also said I was already bigger than he'd ever seen me by the time I climbed onto his face. We've done stuff in that order before and never had it happen though.

My guess is it's partly due to that having been our first sex after a big fight.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Why fight? Seems a total waste of time you could be spending more 'productively'.

[Rouge]

Really? Post-fight sex is normally ridiculously hot supposedly..

[lnt1103]

Well....fight isn't exactly the right word. But it was a near break-up. Call it differences that could have been insurmountable if we were willing to give up and stay stuck in our rut. Which after much talking and tears on both sides, we've decided we're not and we need to focus in on what made us go for the past two years to begin with.

Shake ups are not always a bad thing in a relationship, and we are now more 'us' than we've been in weeks.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Naaah! Post-fight always leaves bad feelings - so we don't do them.