Question!

[babie]

Ok. So I havent been having sex for long buttttttt I know what I want. I want my man to rub my clit when were having sex but I dont know how to ask him or how to get him to do it. Please help!

[2little]

babie,

i personally think if your having sex with a guy u should be comforable in tell him what you want.

but if that is not a option, do it yourself then guide his hand there (chances are he may just fill in)

[Massdebator]

During the act, you could take his hand in yours, and let him feel/see how you do it, then remove your hand, leaving his there. That usually gets the message across. You could also just tell him flat out to rub your clit. You could demand it during the act, but if you bring it up sometime when sex isn't imminent you could take the opp. to learn what he wants too.

[babie]

Thanks to both you guys! Ill try it.

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by Massdebator

During the act, you could take his hand in yours, and let him feel/see how you do it, then remove your hand, leaving his there. That usually gets the message across. You could also just tell him flat out to rub your clit. You could demand it during the act, but if you bring it up sometime when sex isn't imminent you could take the opp. to learn what he wants too.

This is a great recommendation; however, it is better to guide each other in order to learn how best to stimulate a clitoris and penis. Read thru the Index, as there is an article on the subject.

[demonbuttercup]

I rub my own b/c guys tend to rub TOO hard for my taste lol no matter how I say less/more right/left up/down :P

[Brandye]

I am with demon. And your doing it may lead him to try. Just make sure he does not treat it like a penis. Women do a better job than men in dealing with this very sensitive spot of unpredictable desires.

[Buck Naked]

Originally Posted by demonbuttercup

I rub my own b/c guys tend to rub TOO hard for my taste lol no matter how I say less/more right/left up/down :P

I hear ya. I always encourage my wife to do it herself because I know she gets more enjoyment out of it. It's also extremely hot to see. The more comfortable she gets with herself the sexier she becomes.

[theus]

Babie,

If you ask you man to rub your clit while having sex in a really sexy voice he will do it if he wants to please you..

[babie]

Thanks everyone! I think Ill just start rubbing it and see what happens! I'm very shy sexually though....